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School disco

28 replies

Penguinonesie · 10/11/2017 17:54

DS had his first disco today. Are they always so utterly awful? No seating for parents so they decided to all stand around on the "dance floor". Parents so busy recording/taking photos they are oblivious to all the children around them (huge safeguarding issue with regards to sharing images but that's another story). Adults barging past people and generally having no considerations for anyone around them.
He blood loved it, I'm gutted I'm going to have to go through that again at some point.

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Phosphorus · 10/11/2017 17:55

Parents don't stay at ours.

Gizlotsmum · 10/11/2017 17:56

No parents allowed at our school disco

Penguinonesie · 10/11/2017 17:56

KS1 disco, we had to stay

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AnchorDownDeepBreath · 10/11/2017 17:56

Parents usually only stay for the first one, at least at the schools I’ve been involved with.

SoupDragon · 10/11/2017 17:56

Why were there parents there? Apart from the required number of parent helpers who stayed, we just dropped them off at school discos,

Isadora2007 · 10/11/2017 17:57

No parents other than 4-7 helpers stay to ours. Suggest to your Parent Council that they go adult free next time.

SoupDragon · 10/11/2017 17:58

Even at KS1 it was drop off.

As an aside, DD wears her penguin onesie at every opportunity.

Mittens1969 · 10/11/2017 17:59

I’ve never been at our DDs’ school discos. They seem to have enjoyed them, the worst that ever happened was that DD1 appeared to have lost a hearing aid, thankfully we found it later inside her Elsa costume wig. Smile

hidinginthenightgarden · 10/11/2017 18:02

We had to stay at ours for reception. Photos were not allowed.

No idea about seating etc as DH went not me.

PurpleMinionMummy · 10/11/2017 18:02

No parents here either.

SequinsOnEverything · 10/11/2017 18:04

Only dbs checked volunteers allowed to stay at ours

Penguinonesie · 10/11/2017 18:05

Wonder why we had to stay. The hall was far too small for all of the parents/siblings/buggies. We definitely had to though.

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Lindy2 · 10/11/2017 18:15

Having to stay sounds pretty grim. Thankfully ours are drop and run.
There's usually one a term but the reception children don't go until the summer term (when they are more able to handle the fun/chaos!)

TeenTimesTwo · 10/11/2017 18:53

At our primary, we make parents stay for infants because we don't want to be responsible for a whole bunch of hyped up 5 and 6 year olds.
However, seating is available round the edge and anyone wanting a coffee can get one and drink it whilst looking through the door.

SomewhatIdiosyncratic · 10/11/2017 19:37

No parents for R/ KS1 at ours.

Starlight2345 · 10/11/2017 19:40

No parents at our disco’s apart from helpers . Yours sounds dire

Oblomov17 · 10/11/2017 19:41

At our school, No parents at ks1. I think that’s wrong. Drop off. FFS. Who is organising? Or allowing such nonsense? Why everyone kid school/PTA allow this?

IHaveACuntingPlan · 10/11/2017 19:43

Parents have to stay at my dc's school's discos in foundation stage and ks 1. I'm a supply teacher and have worked in many schools and this is the first time I've known parents to have to stay. It's awful, especially when you have 2 dc there at the same time because they want to be in different places (they do an 'event' rather than a disco with far too loud music/dj in the hall and then activities in the ks1 classrooms). It's also a pita when you have a younger child who is not yet in school, not allowed to attend the event and you can't find childcare. My dc have missed out on several occasions because of this.

Quartz2208 · 10/11/2017 19:43

Parents not needed at ours either (even Reception) because there is no space for them (drop off only from Year 1 you can stay at reception if you want)

Helpers are there plus the teachers (we arrange the date with them) so its fine

RightOnTheEdge · 10/11/2017 19:50

No parents at our KS1 disco and reception have their own in their reception area.
It's in the afternoon during school time though with PTA helping.

Was this one after school?

thepatchworkcat · 10/11/2017 19:55

Ugh I had to take Reception DS to one a few weeks ago, it was hellish. Parents stayed, room too full/hot/loud, my worst nightmare. DH is taking him next year.

thepatchworkcat · 10/11/2017 19:55

Oh and it was 6.30-7.30 so DS was shattered before we even got there! Shudder...

paddlingwhenIshouldbeworking · 10/11/2017 20:01

Do other's not include alcohol for adults? Ours has a bar, it's a bit more bearable with a plastic glass of wine in your hand.

bettycat81 · 10/11/2017 20:29

We don't allow parents in the hall or dining area but do have a classroom where they can wait if they don't want to leave (perhaps they travel far or by bus etc) We have 2 discos 1 hour each with a 15 minute changeover inbetween.

AmysTiara · 10/11/2017 20:34

Ours have always been drop and run thankfully.

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