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AIBU to want to resign from one of my jobs?

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Flokidoki · 08/11/2017 10:34

My working week currently looks like this:

3 full days (mon, fri, and sat) working from home. Freelance writing earning approx 1200 pm, sometimes less and sometimes much more.

9 hours retail at 288 pm but petrol + parking costs mean I only see 126 of this each month. This was originally taken to ensure some income if I had a bad month with the freelance work.

I have been informed that my retail contract is being reduced in the new year to either 4 or 6 hours a week.

I have now accepted a job as a pa/office manager for at least 10 hours per week. This will mean at least £400 pm

Personally, I think I should hand my notice in on the retail job but DH thinks I should be able to make all work together, at least until I'm settled in to the new job. He doesn't really seem to have a reason for this other than wanting the extra money.

However, my perspective is that with the new job I can change my work at home days to Monday to Wednesday and do the new job Thursday and Friday, freeing up my weekends.

On top of this I'm about to publish my first book and am also in the editing stages of a novel manuscript (publishing deal is secured). This is currently taking up about 3 hours in the evening and/or me waking up at 4am to work until 6.30am.

New job is a 5 minute as opposed to 45 minute drive away and eliminates the need for daily wraparound childcare.

If I keep the retail job I also think I'll have to stop a WFH day to be able to fit in the new job.

What would you do? I can just see myself being exhausted and not able to balance work and home life. I don't see where I'll have time to exercise (essential for managing arthritis), keep up with the housework that the cleaner doesn't do, and be able to spend quality time with DD.

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Flokidoki · 11/11/2017 09:25

Just to update (if anyone wondered):

Notice has been handed in. It didn't take much - the spreadsheet was a fabulous idea! I basically made a colour coded timetable and included money made or spent if relevant to that block of time.

I was a bit cheeky and also did one of how he'd spent his time last week and as soon as he saw it he started making a plan for next week that included sharing house stuff more and included things like him running in the morning before work so that I have time to exercise in the evening.

In short, he realised what I could see - and what all of you could see.

Thank you for bolstering me, I think I'd have caved and carried on with everything.

I'm also very excited as it means for the first time in 3 years I won't have to work Christmas Eve and Boxing Day.

Also, a pp asked about freelancing full time. I find that I don't write for myself if I do that! It's just a quirk of mine I think. But I completely get your point.

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BitOutOfPractice · 11/11/2017 17:57

Great outcome. I hope you have a lovely Christmas op

DJBaggySmalls · 11/11/2017 18:00

Thats the best outcome!

RiotAndAlarum · 11/11/2017 20:54

Oh, how brilliant for you! Very glad to hear your spreadsheet worked. In a way,.you probably needed the proof yourself, to demand this, and to be comfortable demanding it!

Have a restful pre-Christmas season, rest up, and enjoy your book publication!

Flokidoki · 11/11/2017 22:00

Thank you!

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