Dh is a tidy freak. I am more laid back - we both work, have three children, we all do different sports - there are tons and tons of different sizes and types of kit going through the laundry at any one time.
I tend to wash it, and when its dry, I fold it and put it into piles. one for each dc, then one for each type of sport. I put the sports stuff away in the kit bags or dedicated baskets - eg we have a special basket where all dds football kit goes so we know where it is when we are off to training.
Dh hates the piles of laundry. Every morning when he gets up he spends 20 mins putting the piles away. Almost every time he does this he doesn't put things in the correct place - tonight dds training top was folded up small with dd2s ballet kit and put away in dd2s drawer - so I've had to go through the entire house to find it.
When I say please please can you look at what you are folding and putting away and if its sports kit can you put it in either the basket or the appropriate kit bag - he sulks, says he's doing the best he can, or usually that 'most men don't even help with the laundry'.
AIBU to think I'd rather he just left the fecking laundry alone for me to sort? Even if I get a day or so behind and the piles have to sit for a couple of days before they are sorted?
The dds do put their own laundry away, he never asks them to do it though and because he gets up first he gets to it first!!
One of the reasons I have dedicated bags is so I can put it in there without him suddenly deciding he must put it all away in random drawers where we can't find it. ARGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH