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To question the purpose of a certain app?

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LetMeChangeYourSocks · 01/11/2017 19:59

Right, so me and DP are having a bit of a discussion about a certain social media app that will remain nameless (I’m sure you may be able to guess anyway). I know social media is a trouble maker and I’m not a big fan of it myself anyway and only use it to keep in touch with friends that live overseas.

Anyway, so this app - its main feature is that everything automatically deletes after a certain amount of time, so photos, messages, the lot. I can think of no logical reason why you would need an app that does this - other than one. Please tell me I am not the only person who thinks this? Or am I just being too suspicious?

Why would you want conversations to automatically delete? And why would you want photos and videos to automatically delete?

^genuine answers bar the obvious welcome. I just feel that you would only post pictures on social media that they want to show off anyway, so why would you want it to delete? And if you don’t want all trace of it gone, why share it in the first place? Why not just take the picture and keep it as a memory on your phone or cloud storage?

I think that the app is made to be sneaky and deceitful and that having the app shows that you have something to hide.

So as not to drip feed as I’m sure the questions will come - yes, DP downloaded the app knowing my feelings on it after first downloading it a couple of years ago. I know he’s just got it because a lot of people from work have it and he has FOMO, but he doesn’t understand why I am so uncomfortable with him having it. He has now deleted it but only for a quiet life.

So AIBU?

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GrumpyOldBag · 01/11/2017 20:38

Snapchat is for teenagers, surely?

CoughLaughFart · 01/11/2017 20:39

What’s all this ‘a certain app that shall remain nameless’ bollocks in aid of? Why wouldn’t you just say Snapchat?

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 01/11/2017 20:49

No such thing as "deleted from the internet". Once it's out there, it's out there forever. Snapchat or no Snapfuckingchat.

LetMeChangeYourSocks · 01/11/2017 20:49

Oh bore off Cough 🙄

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LetMeChangeYourSocks · 01/11/2017 20:51

And yes Hearts I know it’s not permanently deleted from the entire internet. But I’m sure a lot of people that use the app don’t actually realise that.

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Hooplaaaa · 01/11/2017 20:59

My ds age 17 uses it for messaging his friends and gf. They rarely use Facebook now.

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 01/11/2017 21:10

I've drilled it into the DD's - if you're going to take a photo of your norks or your fanny FGS don't include your face

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 01/11/2017 21:11

But best not to take said pictures in the first place of course.

IncyWincyGrownUp · 01/11/2017 21:32

I just outright refused to let my daughter download it.

She might have an iPhone, but she sure as hell doesn’t have the App Store/iTunes password.

Louiselouie0890 · 01/11/2017 21:38

You can save it though. Yabu for giving him a hard time for downloading it

vic1981 · 01/11/2017 21:43

Ah, he has a past history of sending dodgy/ inappropriate messages to other women when you were together? No wonder you are not keen on the app!

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