I recently confided in a friend about my self harming. I've been quite down and was coming out the other side when she sent me a very long text at 11pm. She said she was bowing out of the friendship because I was self centred (because of my depression) and not interested enough in her. She said she wasn't going to act as an echo chamber to reflect what I want to hear.
I do appreciate not everyone has the resources to support someone with depression but it felt unnecessarily brutal. I hadn't spoken to her for a couple of weeks and that was partly because I didn't want to burden her with how I was feeling. She's interpreted that as lack of interest. She knows about the depression and I did try to explain things but she's gone 
I struggle sleeping and I was trying to drift off when I felt my phone vibrate and read her message. I was then in tears and didn't sleep till about 2.
I'm not sure if I can trust a friend or confide in them again. How do you know who to trust? I feel like withdrawing from the world even more than I already was, so as not to burden people, but I know that won't help matters. Her words keep playing in my head.