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To think this isn't normal

41 replies

sailorcherries · 30/10/2017 23:31

I posted a while ago about severr chest pains I had during the night (www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/2993423-To-request-emergency-GP-appointment-today?pg=1&order= ) and how the GP dismisses it as stress.

After this happening serveral times over the next week and a half I was sent to a&e to check for a pulmonary embolism and other issues. Kept in overnight, xrays and ct scans clear as well as ecg and blood work.

Again it kept happening and after a time where the pain lasted 3 hours I went back to a&e, same tests and same results. This time the consultant got me referred as an outpatient for gallbladder and liver ultrasounds. I had the scan 1.5 weeks ago and I've not heard back since (I will hear back either way).

Now I'm reflecting there seems to be other issues that started around the same time and are gradually building.

Excessive sweating - getting the pram bag packed or baby dressed, putting my makeup on or tidying up the house before leaving and I start sweating (back soaking, sticky to touch sweat). I thought it waa hormonal but it didn't kick in until over 3 months postpartum.
Stomach pain and bloating - particularly after eating, although nothing in particular, accompanied by bad wind.
Itchy skin - everywhere is itchy, all the time. I've scratched layers of skin off my legs. No change to shower gels, lotions, perfumes and so on.
Headaches - exceptionally sore heads requiring me to wear my glasses more often with blurred vision otherwise.
Fatigue - I've recently been finding day to day life harder, tasks that I'd normally complete without a thought are getting pushed aside. I'm trying to nap when the baby does (despite never doing this before) and I can't get up after 8 hours of sleep (baby sleeps through).
Joint and muscle pain - slowly started with my back and neck, pulled my neck/shoulder muscle twice in a month and then progressed to my shoulders and ankles. I cannot style my hair without achey shoulders and my ankles felt weaker. Ankles now feel swollen and sore, have done for days, and my knees have started too.
Moods - I'm increasingly moody, annoyed easily, upset easily, gone off sex, don't want to be touched, getting irrationally angry etc.
Stalled weight loss - losing weight regularly for 3 months after giving birth. Pains started, started exercising and eating better, no weight loss in months.
Anxiety - constant anxiety about everything. Are those people looking at me? In the car, we're going to crash and die. DS1 at his dads, something bad will happen. I'm on mat leave and I'm not due back in until January, my stuff is ready and lists made to keep me right.

On their own it doesn't seem like much but it has all started in a slow drip, drip, drip fashion since the first episode. I'd normally only be sore after exercise, being up at 4am with the baby wouldn't make me as tired as I am now and I'm normally a very relaxed individual with little to no mood swings.

As I said I'm still waiting on these bloody results but am I being a hypochondriac to believe something isn't quite right and it's all tied in? I've mentioned to my parents and a few others and get told "it's tirednese/parenting/diet" and so on. I'm starting to worry something is genuinely wrong though. If these scans come back normal would you go back to your gp and see about further investigations?

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TheWhyteRoseShallRiseAgain · 31/10/2017 09:10

I have a lot of these symptoms and I have Chronic Migraine Syndrome, Fibromyalgia and have IBS as well. My anxiety came about as a result of my health conditions and the effect they had or would have on my family so a bit of a vicious circle. It took a lot of time and different doctors to get a dx and still trial and error to manage them but I'm getting there

sailorcherries · 31/10/2017 10:12

Thanks everyone. I'm going to see what the ultrasound results throw up (and may even try phoning to chase them up, but I don't know who would have them haha).

If nothing comes of it/nothing helps I'll be back to the drs again in order to get to the bottom of it.

I think the anxiety has become worse as a result of it. I genuinely feel like I'm going to die when the chest pains happen.

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Fruitcorner123 · 31/10/2017 10:16

You really should mention the anxiety to the GP. The poster who said leave it out was irresponsible. A GP knows best what's causing what and will treat accordingly. If you dont mention the anxiety especially as its getting worse the GP may mis-diagnose.

sailorcherries · 01/11/2017 21:58

I will do thanks fruit. Still waiting on these scan results Angry

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Baconbutties · 01/11/2017 22:06

Hope you get it sorted sounds worrying but as you are young and otherwise fit it could be endocarditis which is a post viral thing and fits right in with most of your symptoms i think so hope you get some results back soon

Boakboak · 01/11/2017 22:11

I have panic disorder and these are all symptoms I've experienced. Flowers for you OP - do something for you. Try to rule out physical symptoms by getting some sleep and me-time to really centre on yourself if possible and what makes you happy, and see if that alleviates anxiety.

AnnabellaH · 01/11/2017 22:12

Invisible posts :(

sailorcherries · 02/11/2017 09:36

Thanks everyone, the chest pains seem to have stopped just now but that's how it tends to go. I've also cut out dairy and gluten to see how that helps.

Still fatigued, irritable, itchy, upset, anxious, bloated, gassy and so on :(

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OrangeCrush19 · 02/11/2017 13:27

I have most of these symptoms and can’t get a diagnosis.

Endocrinologist suggested I have CFS but that she isn’t qualified to diagnose. I’ve had every blood test going - all negative - and seem to have reached an NHS dead end.

Watching thread with interest... best of luck OP.

sailorcherries · 02/11/2017 21:32

Thank you, you too orange

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Moanyoldcow · 02/11/2017 21:37

I had loads of those symptoms and it ended up being a severe Vit D deficiency. I take 4000ui a day now and it's all sorted.

Maybe ask for a blood test to check?

thefutureisours · 02/11/2017 21:42

I had similar symptoms. Turned out to be vit d and b9 deficiency.i had loads of tests and they told me I was basically the picture of health. It took a lot of convincing to do further tests, goodness only knows why when it was something so simple!

flyingpigsinclover · 02/11/2017 22:33

I get the tingling sensation, it goes away when I have some marmite so I think vitamin B12 is also connected to this.

Msqueen33 · 02/11/2017 22:35

Have you been tested for coeliac? A lot of your symptoms sound a lot like coeliac. A friend of mine suffered with anxiety because of it and both my kids have coeliac and my youngest has quite bad anxiety.

flyingpigsinclover · 02/11/2017 23:19

That's interesting as sometimes I get pain in my chest after eating bread.

LadyDeLaFuente · 03/11/2017 00:45

My first thought was fibromyalgia.

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