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Am I being ridiculous?

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missladybird · 27/10/2017 16:55

Recently a dad has started going to the playgroup that me and my dd have been going to for over a year. We chat but only really small talk about the dcs but I do find him attractive. In the corridor on the way out today I squeezed past him and he put his hand on my shoulder and said see you next week.

I've been single for a while now so may be reading this all wrong but is that classed as flirty behaviour? or am I acting like a desperate single woman?

OP posts:
missladybird · 27/10/2017 21:12

How do I build myself up? I know losing weight would make me more confident but I just can't seem to get in the right frame of mind to do it. I'm not overweight but feel bigger than what I'm comfortable with.

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MMcanny · 27/10/2017 21:16

He's probably married. Tread carefully.

Arealhumanbeing · 28/10/2017 07:15

How do I build myself up?

It’s hard to say. It just really struck me when you said you would be interested but wouldn’t have the confidence to act on it. You need to find out why that is. Has something or someone damaged your perspective?

It sounds like counseling or a confidence building course might help. Do you have friends? Developing your own interests and focusing on yourself might be a better idea for now.

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