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Leaving kids on their own? Too early?

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MrsLilymunster · 25/10/2017 17:44

My friend was telling me that her parents often left her on her own from the age of 8+. her parents are really lovely but am I being unreasonable in thinking this is a bit reckless????
when is acceptable age to leave your children on their own??

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madeyemoodysmum · 26/10/2017 08:08

Local peadophile !! More likely your dh mate or family friend the one to watch out for.

Bluelonerose · 26/10/2017 08:14

My youngest is almost 8.
If we had stable Wi-Fi I probably could leave him alone for 10 mins.
But I don't think I would I just don't think he's mature enough. I've have 2 other dc who are teens and have been left since they were in year 6.
Again not something I was comfortable with but I couldn't afford childcare to work.

MummysMaison · 26/10/2017 08:17

I leave my 11 & 9 year old daughters at home if i go shopping or run errands, usually for around 2 hours. They are very sensible and we have good neighbours who the girls know well in case of emergencies. My older DD has a mobile so can ring me if she needs to.

Longwalkoffashortpier · 26/10/2017 08:17

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BananaInPyjama · 27/10/2017 00:42

we live in Australia.
Kids mostly walk /cycle to school on their own around 7/8.
My kids are collected by a classmate who happens to walk past our house and they all go together.
First few times I supervised them across the busiest road (which is not busy!) and they have to use the crossing lady.

Apart from that - when the oldest was 9 I would leave them (youngest 8) for an hour while I went to the supermarket. They love the responsibility.
Most people leave their sensible kids around 9 ish here.

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