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To say no to a brand new house

38 replies

000adviceplease · 25/10/2017 10:23

Hi, I currently have a 3 bed semi two living rooms and small kitchen. It’s me and my son (who has autism) who live here. I have been waiting on a 2 bed house and have been offered a new build- however the bedrooms and lounge are tiny (you can fit a single bed and wardrobe in the smaller bedroom and even then you are sleeping against the wall) and the double bedroom is a double bed and one one wardrobe). We have more space in current house as it’s an older style 1930s. However the current house has mice infestation every year noisy neighbours (dogs) and needs a new bathroom which the ha are dragging their heels on. I need to decide fairly quickly but the upshot is my son Doesn’t like the idea of a tiny room and doesn’t want to feel hemmed in. The new house is mid terraced and not sure how noisy the new builds are. I know how much in demand a 3 bed is and the ha lady was quite excited to be possibly getting a 3 bed back. I’m a ft student and can not afford a private rental so that isnt option any help
Appreciated

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BewareOfDragons · 25/10/2017 11:24

Stay where you are.

ArcheryAnnie · 25/10/2017 11:34

I also have the right to acquire on this current house.

Do bear in mind that it's not just the cost of the house, it's also the cost of the upkeep, which if it's an older property will not be small.

000adviceplease · 25/10/2017 11:42

I do get that I will have the repairs but it’s a chance at owning a home I wouldn’t have otherwise.

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000adviceplease · 25/10/2017 11:46

Fontella, I feel your pain regarding the mice I have had these every year for 7 years. I will try some of things you have done. I’m glad you are finally rid! I have been bidding on properties as I do pay the bedroom tax but this new house is more expensive £40 a month which is a lot as a ft student.

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flyingpigsinclover · 25/10/2017 12:11

YABU, a new build house without mice and noisy dogs and no need for major work is a real blessing. You are very, very fortunate to be offered it.

stitchglitched · 25/10/2017 12:19

I moved into a new build HA house last year from an older house. Ours is also mid terrace but I don't hear a thing from the neighbours. We've had the odd teething problem but the builders have sorted those out. We were moving to get a bigger house and an extra bedroom though, so are better off here.

In your position it sounds like you are better off staying where you are unless a really nice 2 bed comes up. Don't move for something worse than what you have now.

designatedSurvivorer · 25/10/2017 12:26

Stay put and negotiate for a period property with large (ensuite) bathrooms, kitchen, separate dining room and room for a pony.

Could you afford to pay the market rate (and have a choice of where to rent) if you were working?

Fontella · 25/10/2017 13:06

Fontella, I feel your pain regarding the mice I have had these every year for 7 years. I will try some of things you have done. I’m glad you are finally rid! I have been bidding on properties as I do pay the bedroom tax but this new house is more expensive £40 a month which is a lot as a ft student.

I am too scared to say I am 'finally rid' as they have been so persistent over the years and have made my life an absolutely misery as I am petrified of them to the point of phobia. I once stayed a whole weekend upstairs in my bedroom because I saw one in the lounge and was too scared to go back downstairs.

Eventually however I heard a scratching noise upstairs and one shot across my bedroom floor. That was it! War was declared. Up until then I'd only put down humane traps (never caught a thing) so it was snap traps (also never caught a thing) scrupulous hygiene, sweeping, wiping away all food scraps, wrappings etc. (if there's no food for them to eat your home becomes a lot less attractive) moved kitchen bin to outside cupboard, used all the various repellents and sprays and the peppermint oil (did no good as far as I could tell) - it was only blocking off those holes under the kitchen units, plugging in the repellant thing and cutting away the shrub that was near the window and they seem to have buggered off.

I did call in the council mouse man at one point but he said he couldn't see any evidence of 'infestation'. He found one mouse turd and said if I was infested there would be a lot more evidence of them, so he declined to put down the poison and refunded my money, even though I was regularly seeing mouse/mice. I'd walk in my kitchen and it would be running across the worktop! I also once was sat talking on the phone in my kitchen and one of the fuckers ran out from under the cooker, I screamed and it shot back in again! I was a nervous bloody wreck.

It was the pest bloke from the council who suggested cutting back the shrub from the window as apparently they can and do climb into houses that way.

The idea is to make your house as unattractive to rodents as possible and that's (supposedly) how the plug in thing works - through the noise and the electrical current which they can hear/feel. Whether it works or not I honestly don't know but along with the other two things I mentioned - it appears to have worked for me, but I don't want to say they are gone forever ... because I'm terrified they will come back. All I can say is it is seemingly working for now.

I do sympathise with you though - it is hell, and I wish you luck in getting rid!

ChasedByBees · 25/10/2017 13:14

I think I would stay put too.

Ellendegeneres · 25/10/2017 14:17

I'm council, and just to throw this out there, if I moved the rtb would follow- as it did from my previous home, which I moved from due to lack of space (kids, needed another room).
As your position stands though, i too would stay put.

FizzyGreenWater · 25/10/2017 14:55

DON'T DO IT.

You will really notice the difference with noise - the build quality of a new build will be nowhere NEAR what you have now. Walls will be paper thin and shit quality and you will regret it if you're the kind of person to notice dog noise.

And if you think you have problems now with the bathroom, wait til a shittily built new build starts to fall apart!

And tiny rooms and less space. What's not to hate? Grin

Stay put, look at buying - your other issues are sortable.

SwishswishBiTCH · 25/10/2017 16:25

Do not move into mid terrace. My worst mistake I've ever made. It's so SO loud. My boy doesn't sleep well and isnup 4-5 times a night because of the noise from neighbours. Currently trying to move out of our mid terrace into a semi detached. Definitley stay where you are Smile

SwishswishBiTCH · 25/10/2017 16:28

Is up not isnup. Mines also new build and extremely small.

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