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Oh my god the morning sickness

48 replies

sickynicky · 23/10/2017 14:57

I am only 6.5 weeks pregnant (with my second DC) and the nausea is just overwhelming.

I've been sick a fair few times but my goodness the nausea is making me feel like I can't go on Sad

I don't remember feeling this awful with my first.

Is this normal?? Please someone tell me you've been the same

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MummaTwinkleToes · 23/10/2017 16:35

Poor you OP I had terrible HG with both my pregnancies. See your GP for some anti emetics (anti sickness) tablets. I took a combination of ondansetron and cyclizine which really helped. Obviously everyone is different but crystallised ginger, sipping flat lemonade and dry crackers also helped me. At least you haven't crapped yourself which I did during one horrendous vomiting bout! Luckily I was at home. Blush Good luck and congratulations on baby. Smile

Scoleah · 23/10/2017 17:29

Never had any sickness on my first, (girl)
This time round I had the most awful time feeling nauseous & being sick from about 6-16weeks! (Boy!)
Hope you feel better soon OP, I always used to think people were being petty saying how bad morning sickness was until I went through it, wouldn’t wish it on anyone!
Flowers

Sallycinnamum · 23/10/2017 17:32

Terrible sickness with my second, a girl,that even now I shudder when I think about it.

No nausea with my first, a boy.

In the end I was put on cyclazine which allowed me to function with my DD. If it has been my first pregnancy it would've been my only one!

LittleRen · 23/10/2017 17:46

Cyclazine with my second baby helped with my nausea but it made me so tired I couldn’t stay awake so it was working out which was the lesser of two evils for me... on top of normal pregnancy tiredness the extra tiredness was hard to cope with!!

Chattycat78 · 23/10/2017 17:57

Yeah I feel your pain. My second pregnancy was a nightmare for sickness week 7-15 ish. I was hurling ten times a day at its worst and had to take phenerghan in the end which definitely helped.

I had a 9 month old when I got pregnant so spent lot of time with a sick bucket next to me whilst trying to look after him at the same time. Not fun.

To be fair, it was a twin pregnancy though (although sadly twin 2 didn't make it).

It sucks.

lill72 · 23/10/2017 18:15

It is normal but oh it so awful. I suffered through two pregnancies. I went on meds both times. They dont fix it but they make it a little better. Worst was I felt so ill and just had to eat whatever I felt like then went to this midwife who said I was obese on the BMI (though I did not look it) So unhelpful and depressing when you are sick as dog. I now have a lovely 2 and 7 year old and it was worth it but feeling your pain Take care and do whatever you need to make you feel better. Rest up.

sabrinathemiddleagedwitch1 · 24/10/2017 07:47

@Chattycat78
Sorry to read that Flowers

Marmalady75 · 24/10/2017 08:54

With my daughter I was fine until week 7 then nauseous and sick night and day until about 18 weeks (with a salt and vinegar craving). With my son I was only sick a handful of times, but had horrendous heartburn the whole pregnancy (which I was told repeatedly meant he would have a thick head of hair and he was practically bald when he was born).

user1497997754 · 24/10/2017 09:08

I used to have to drive 16 miles to work in the morning while suffering with morning sickness. I used to eat ready break first thing and then throw it up with that horrible yellow bile....took some to work with me to do the same during the day.....feel sorry for you as its awful

Doubletrouble42 · 24/10/2017 09:11

Flowers my sympathies. And to stop you panicking I had horrific sickness with my singleton but not with my twins! I found travel bands a bit helpful. Available from chemist.

Gabriella885 · 19/11/2017 20:19

Hi ladies - looking for some moral support here as really suffering. I've been experiencing constant nausea from the morning until night since 5.5 weeks and now 8.5 weeks. I was so bad without medication that I couldn't stand up for long or do anything for my daughter so doc tried me on Cyclizine (did nothing), Ondansetron (took the edge off but stopped me going to the loo completely which only added to the nausea) and now on Stemetil (which means I can function but the nausea is still constant). I've tried everything - ginger, acupressure bands, homeopathy and nothing seems to give me much relief. How do ladies cope with this - I'm only 3 weeks into feeling like this and I read horror stories about this going on until well into the second trimester if not all the way through. I never experienced anything like this with my daughter and getting so stressed about work because I only get 10 days paid sick leave a year and pretty much used all that in last couple of weeks :(

Ilovechocolatetoomuch · 19/11/2017 20:28

I had the smallest amount of nausea with my first which was a boy. This time I actually feel like I'm at deaths door, I ache, feel sick, I'm exhausted and I am soooo grumpy!

Gabriella885 · 19/11/2017 20:32

It's awful isn't it!! I keep crying as I don't know what else to do! How far along are you Ilovechocolatetoomuch?

Ilovechocolatetoomuch · 19/11/2017 21:25

I am 10 weeks. I think it is much harder this time as there is no chill out time with ds1 to look after. I have spent alot of the weekend relaxing whilst hubby does the childcare, dreading tom when it's over to me again!

Namebot · 19/11/2017 21:29

Gabriella - there is a hyperemesis support thread in the pregnancy section mumsnet talk - the posters there are amazing and there are lots of survival tips.

Ondansetron is the best drug, for many people. I took it WITH stemetil and although ill it reduced the nausea and vomiting.

TovaGoldCoin · 19/11/2017 21:49

I had HG with every one of my damn pregnancies. My teeth are ruined

Whereisthegin1978 · 19/11/2017 21:51

I feel for you. I'm 16 weeks with my 4th and sept & October have gone so slowly! I've felt nauseous continually - up until about 3 weeks ago really. I remember being like this with my first but the 2 after weren't as bad! I hope you start to feel better soon.

DeadDoorpost · 19/11/2017 21:52

if you go back on ondansetron ask for lactulose to go alongside it. there are other meds such as metaclopramide and Prochlorperazine. but yeah. lactulose can also be bought over the counter if you can't get it from your GP.

And definitely join us on the Hyperemesis thread! we've got a lot of different suggestions for all sorts, even if it's just the nausea!

user1497997754 · 19/11/2017 22:31

I used to eat ready brek as easy to throw up and couldn't taste that evil yellow bile stuff

mirime · 19/11/2017 22:56

I felt sick from the day I did the test to gone 20 weeks. And by sick, I mean agonisingly nauseous, I didn't know it was possible to be that nauseous and for it to go on for months with no break.

Walking made me retch and dry heave, I couldn't tolerate most smells, and drinking water, even the tiniest sip, meant instant vomiting, and I mean instant. Other liquids and I'd be sick within 20 minutes. Eating often made me sick as well, so did moving.

I lost a load of weight, and stayed hydrated by eating melon after my GP told me to "try harder" to drink and implied that any medication might be bad for the baby and that they couldn't do anything anyway unless I was dehydrated enough to need hospitalisation.

My life basically revolved around trying to get enough wet food in me to not get dehydrated, and sneaking in liquids when I could. I did mention this to the midwife as well and she looked confused about the whole thing.

I still get cross that nobody gave me any decent advice - I worked through all this, would you believe! Not very well, and I was often late or left early, but no healthcare professional seemed to have a clue, despite what I told them and the fact that I lost enough weight that my rings were slipping off my fingers.

bertiesgal · 19/11/2017 23:33

With my first two pregnancies I felt sick and miserable. With my third I felt so awful I genuinely thought I was dying. I was worried that my new baby was going to have to grow up without a mother. I cried hopelessly to DH repeatedly.Turns out it was twins Blush. They're 2 now and they're still trying to kill me Wink

Gabriella885 · 20/11/2017 08:55

Thank you so much for all your replies - it was lovely to wake up to! It's good to know others have got through this, as much as I would never want anyone else to go through this - I've got another doc appointment today to discuss a better medicine combination, keeping everything crossed that I get some relief x

Anatidae · 20/11/2017 08:58

Nothing to add to the advice here other than to say you’re not alone.
Sickness can be horrific. I was sick from a week before my positive test to birth.

The hyperemesis thread is incredibly supportive.

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