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Giving DS the day off school

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user1498912461 · 22/10/2017 19:00

DS (5) and I have been away all weekend (having a great time!). We get home at around 9pm/9.30pm tonight, DH wants to keep DS off school tomorrow as he thinks he'll be too tired. I'd prefer him to go as he's missed quite a few days this term. DH is adamant he doesn't go. Would you keep a child off school because they are tired?

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StickyTapeDispenser · 22/10/2017 19:42

He can tell his friends at school about his exciting weekend and then have an early night tomorrow.

Does your DH have the final say in these matters, or will he listen to reason and agree with you?

GrabbyMcGrabby · 22/10/2017 19:45

So is your DH going to look after him if he doesn't go in? Is he going to explain it to the school?

user1498912461 · 22/10/2017 19:54

DH now in a strop saying "he doesn't have a say in anything"

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Sirzy · 22/10/2017 19:57

Let him strop and tell him no he doesn’t get a say when it comes to allowing his son to play truant!

Crunchymum · 22/10/2017 19:57

If his attendance is already poor, the I'd send him in (on fact I would send him in even if he had 100% attendance) as to me it doesn't warrant a day off.

Who will be looking after him of he is off tomorrow?

Crunchymum · 22/10/2017 19:58

You say the child is asleep now? Can you transfer him to bed asleep?

Crunchymum · 22/10/2017 19:58

Excuse typos

Allthebestnamesareused · 22/10/2017 19:59

So when you are fined or prosecuted for low attendance I assume DH will psy the fine or take the custodial sentence.

It is sending entirely the wrong message to your son to just take days off!

MagicTapeDispenser · 22/10/2017 19:59

DH needs to grow up!

RainbowPastel · 22/10/2017 20:00

Sounds like you have two children not one.

ilovesooty · 22/10/2017 20:04

Of course you are right and he should be in school. Your husband is being ridiculous.

HackAttack · 22/10/2017 20:05

Poor kid, missing out on education for no reason

PotteringAlong · 22/10/2017 20:09

If your DH was that bothered about his sleep you should have got home earlier!

Send him to school.

Ploppie4 · 22/10/2017 20:10

9.30 is late for us and he’s only 5

Delilah21D00LoT · 22/10/2017 20:11

Sorry OP but if your DH is in a strop then he needs to grow up and maybe he should go to bed earlier.

NC4now · 22/10/2017 20:58

He knows there’s a legal obligation to send your kids to school, yes?

Blondephantom · 22/10/2017 21:14

I meant back foot - not sure what happened!

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