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Aibu to be angry?

28 replies

Flooglebinder · 22/10/2017 08:09

Last night me a DH had a row, I felt hurt and just really annoyed to be frank.
Bit of back story, this is second marriage for us both I have DD and he has DS.
His parents are horrendous to the point where my DD does not feel welcome, she's 19 and is a lesbian I fully support her and I love her unconditionally.
But in laws are extremely ignorant, with horrible comments in my opinion homophobic.
Anyway each Christmas they tend to leave her out which I know I cannot force them to include her but my family would never do that to his DS.
I simply would not allow it.
Last night I asked him if he could ask them not to be so mean to her, his reply was simply well she's not flesh and blood is she?
That to me was uncalled for she's been in their lives over 10 years now.
I was furious was I right to be or was unreasonable?

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travellinglighter · 22/10/2017 09:00

Dont ever invite them over again and if he asks why, “They’re not my flesh and blood” is your answer. Don’t be afraid to offebd them, they’re not afraid to offend you,

DrunkUnicorn · 22/10/2017 09:12

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Maelstrop · 22/10/2017 09:15

Why isn't he supporting your opinion and your dd? I would do fuck all towards their Christmas/birthdays, no invitation, no visit, no presents, zero. Wankers.

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