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Teenage phone envy

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Neapolitanicecream · 20/10/2017 13:37

Dd said she couldn't text that she was late as did not want her friends to see "crap" phone its Sony smartphone but not a iPhone or Samsung ! 2 yr Contract not due till April should I give in to peer pressure?

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Notreallyarsed · 20/10/2017 15:29

I think most posters have forgotten how brutal the early teenage years can be if you don’t fit in.

Can you do an early upgrade or buy an older model iPhone/Samsung from a reputable site? We’ve bought DS1 an iPhone for Christmas because he’ll be getting out to play when we move house and I do make sure he has the stuff that makes him fit in, because he’s autistic and has enough social anxiety as it is. I’m sure on here that makes me a shit mum, but I’ve been the kid that had fuck all and it’s shit.

Ragnarhairybretches · 22/10/2017 21:22

If it makes her feel better tell her my 14 yr old D'S has no phone AT ALL!. Dur dur dur.

(Before I get flamed his school don't allow them and he talks to his friends in the evening via his laptop, he has actually never asked for a phone!)

whiteroseredrose · 22/10/2017 21:30

Never buy a phone on contract it’s a rip off. Buy it outright and then get a cheap sim only contract.

Disagree with this actually. I did my sums and there was very little difference. Sim only isn't free!

I gave in to pressure but each time it was a joint Christmas and birthday present.

Scholes34 · 22/10/2017 21:33

Just tell her to make sure she doesn't ever run late, so she has no need to text you whilst with her friends.

NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom · 22/10/2017 21:33

Is it an Xperia? Fucking loved mine-iPhones are overrated shit, Samsung are decent quality phones.

user1487194234 · 22/10/2017 21:48

If you can afford it I would get her an upgrade These things matter at that age If she is generally well behaved and working well at school I would

Princesspinkgirl · 22/10/2017 23:42

I've a Samsung s7 and the battery is now dire only had it 8 months much over rated wouldn't entertain the idea

charmedrose · 22/10/2017 23:49

My DH loves to show off his basic £15 samsung. He doesn't feel the need for anything better. He says as long as he can make and receive calls that's all he needs.

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