Extreme upset about financial disclosure form - divorce related

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Why would my H be saying that I can have what I want and that he doesn't want a fight?

He is in the process of filling in Form E and it has tipped him over the edge. He was crying about it. When I said that in any case even if we go the voluntary route (ours is court ordered) he still has to fill Form E in, he said that I could fill his in. How can I do that when I have my own to do? I also would not know what to write as I do not know his stuff.

He has already got divorced before and says he knows what it is like. I said that all I want is fairness - not a fight. I can't just name what I "want".

He runs a business so the form is complicated for him yes - it's not that bad though is it?

Help. I feel shit about all of it.

My relative reckons he might be dyslexic and simply can't handle the form.

Embarrassed if he has debt or similar?
Or just stressed by everything? It too me ages to do the form as life was so complex and my brain was frazzled

Can he not get somebody else, a friend, to help him complete it if he is struggling? It's not really ideal that you get to see both sides, even if he is inclined to be generous.

Just had a thought - you're on social media - is he similar, would he join a forum to ask for help? If so, direct him to Wikivorce, as their forum is really good.

Are you allowed fill it in for him?

His solicitor can help him complete it?

He doesn't want to pay out for a solicitor - he does have an online one.

has he got a solicitor

To think that he would apparently have me name what I want rather than fill it in. I don't understand. It's really upsetting. This is after a year of us being estranged but in the same house.

tell him he needs to get a proper solicitor who can help him

I have, but he says they are all out for your money and that that's what mine is doing - just making money out of me.