Question. I have quite a delicate situation so not really AIBU but WWYD.
I started working for a company (a bank) last year in November when I lived in my home city. It was amazing, was going to work happy, had a fabulous team & long story short I enjoyed being there doing what I did.
Then I met someone (highlight of my life now, everything else is crap), and I decided to move where he's from (50 km away, different city), so I tried to find a way to get a transfer in the same bank. Lucky me (or so I thought), I found this position which is a bit higher and managed to move here.
My first day was two weeks ago on Monday. Since then I come home shattered, yelled at or even worse ignored when asking questions/help. I'll try to be short. We're not supposed to do field work, but they require us to do. Which is fine. Except I went every single day first and second week, and every single day this week, whilst everyone else rotated and their turn came 2 times a week tops.
I did this everyday for 5-6 hours, outside in rain & cold, ran back to work to catch up and just worked my ass off as hard as I could. Which is fine. But every single day I got yelled at I didn't do enough, Move quicker (trust me I didn't even have a lunch break at all! I didn't eat in 9 hours), I got ignored when asked for help and they all spoke to me like I am shit just giving orders around. The bosses are mean and inhumane, and I feel lost.
So, regarding the fact there are no jobs atm, I have no chance to get a different job, how do I adapt? I feel like telling them to stop talking to me like that and be nicer but I know this would make it all worse. What do I do to make them like me and make my life more bearable?
I hope this made sense and I can get some useful advice for people who went through similar stuff.
Thanks, lovely people.