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To say what I really think in an ESTYN (ofsted) parents meeting?

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piefacedClique · 09/10/2017 12:33

Exactly that really... dd school has had a turbulent few years and there have been multiple changes in leadership and long term staff sickness.... ds has gone through periods there of being very unhappy, in a poorly behaved class and being unchallenged by work (think doing maths homework’s now year that he was going independently this time last year). Dh and I are both teachers and at times have taken a back seat however recently have been more proactive in raising concerns we have. There is another acting headteacher in place this year however it is too soon to see if the changes she puts in place are effective. Suddenly school looks very estyn prepped and children (the weekend before they arrive) all have shiny targets in their books despite actually having no idea what his targets are himself! School have known estyn will inevitably be in this year as they are already overdue so aibu to think they should have done this sooner! This week is the estyn visit and we still have big concerns.... so do I sit quietly in the meeting, knowing that in my parents questionnaire I have answered honestly or do I raise my concerns in the meeting? Ive been through 4 inspections as a teacher but don’t know the format of the meetings so have no idea what to expect! We have always been very supportive of the school but it has become increasingly obvious that there have been significant areas which have been overlooked by past leadership team and that school is not doing as well as it could/should. The last thing I would want is to hang the staff (who work exceptionally hard in the whole) out to dry but I would hate for the inspection to come out having missed areas of concern because the last head was an estyn inspector so knows the holes to plug as it were!

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KityGlitr · 09/10/2017 20:03

Sorry, you can tell from their posts what their aim is (get attention/rile you up). I wouldn't bother if aimed at me as it's just giving them reinforcement but couldn't let the irony of them attempting to judge your use of English while failing dismally themselves go. So embarrassing to witness.

piefacedClique · 09/10/2017 20:11

Thanks Kitty. I hope that’s the case too Monkeysee100. Ds had 5 different teachers last year due to long term absences and changes in supply teachers so consistency has been a real issue. In fact the best spell he had last year was with a superb nqt supply who was really engaging and passionate about the class. We’ve had three different head teachers in two years and two acting deputy heads who are working really hard in challenging circumstances... issues like that hopefully will be acknowledged in the schools self evealuation and so won’t be easily papered over.

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MerryMarigold · 10/10/2017 09:38

I'm sure they read the questionnaire v carefully as they will be aware that people feel less able to be honest in front of others. If you feel necessary, you could write a further letter and say that approx a third of the attendees work in the school so made it difficult to be honest.

piefacedClique · 11/10/2017 10:46

Thanks MerryMarigold, sounds like a good idea.

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