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To hate the term 'Tea'

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ditzyglamour · 04/10/2017 21:29

I guess I know I am as it seems the majority use it. But to me, its dinner and growing up I can never recall hearing anyone refer to it as 'Tea'.

I just find it so flowery and annoying.

Got that off my chest now 😃.

Anyone else?

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bananafish81 · 05/10/2017 23:19

@CharlieSierra already asked the sandwich question ad nauseam. Apparently it's still a dinner even if you have a sandwich, and a packed lunch isn't a packed lunch. No one has answered what they call a lunch box if they don't believe in lunches....

+1 for bewilderment at horror of Sunday lunch

It's lunch on a Sunday.

Even the Royle family, mentioned as an example of tea as the evening meal, had an episode called 'Sunday lunch'!

m.imdb.com/title/tt0785911/

SeamstressfromTreacleMineRoad · 05/10/2017 23:25

Black Country here.
Breakfast/Dinner/Tea.

Anyone eating after that was just plain greedy Grin

I've lost one DC to the 'sarf' - their family say Breakfast/Lunch/Dinner - luckily, the other DC's DP is Welsh, so they say Breakfast/Dinner/Tea... Makes for interesting conversations when we're all together Grin

ProfessorCat · 05/10/2017 23:30

Lunch box alternatives = Sandwich box/bag, Tupperware, food bag

bananafish81 · 05/10/2017 23:30

All guidance for UK employment law refers to a rest break during a standard working day being taken as a tea / coffee break or lunch break

But apparently lunch doesn't exist, so employment contracts that specify details about lunch breaks are obviously completely ridiculous. Obviously.

ladymariner · 05/10/2017 23:39

Me (Northern) - Breakfast, dinner, tea
Dh (Southern) - Breakfast, lunch, dinner

Couldn't give a toss, as long as we all get fed! Grin

TheWitchAndTrevor · 06/10/2017 06:28

No one has answered what they call a lunch box if they don't believe in lunches....

But apparently lunch doesn't exist

You are sounding ridiculous, and looking like it's really got up your nose.

What is so hard to understand that for vast swathes of the UK people call what some people call lunch, dinner. They are not denying the existence of the word lunch or even misunderstanding what it means, just that they use the word dinner for the mid day meal.

Unlike you they are capable of knowing the meaning of different words for different things depending on who,what and where they are talking to/about.

wtffgs · 06/10/2017 06:57

I'm northern. 'Tea' is a perfectly acceptable way to refer to the main evening meal. I balk a bit at 'dinner' for a midday meal because I've spent a lot of time living in the South Grin

heron98 · 06/10/2017 07:01

My sister and I grew up having "tea" and that's what I still call it.

However, my sister always corrects me when I use the word to my niece (her daughter) and insists it's "dinner". I am not sure what's happened in the intervening years.

AutumnalLeaves38 · 06/10/2017 07:46

"Evening repast". Trust me on this.

busyboysmum · 06/10/2017 07:53

"Snap tin" is a lunch box 😊 I've always loved that one. Pack up your snap....

lynmilne65 · 06/10/2017 08:25

so glad I propry uppr classs

derxa · 06/10/2017 08:37

so glad I propry uppr classs Go and have a wee lie down.

thewooster · 06/10/2017 08:55

My dad used to call it snap box for lunch box. He was always running to the school gate for me to give my brother his snap - cos the dozy twonk had forgot it.

It was back in the days when you walked to school on your own aged 6!

Still can't believe we used to do that.

cowgirlsareforever · 06/10/2017 08:57

I have heard of people calling lunch boxes snap boxes. People also called food Jackbit, which is a Wigan and surrounding areas word.

Deathraystare · 06/10/2017 08:58

Growing up in Kent - we had school dinners and then dinner at home (I guess because mum was doing a dinner for Dad anyway. However on Sunday -it was the only day we had a dinner at lunchtime and then tea later on.

But when going to friend's house after school I would be invited to tea.

chipscheeseandcurrysauce · 06/10/2017 09:04

Nope. I’m a midlander so it’s breakfast, dinner and tea.

PyongyangKipperbang · 06/10/2017 09:23

Despite us being firmly lunch/dinner people, YY to kids inviting each other for tea!

I suspect that thats because a 5 year old inviting a friend for dinner sounds vaguely ridiculous and conjures up images of a chi chi dinner party amongst reception kids :o

AutumnalLeaves38 · 06/10/2017 09:24

Love that!

I'd not ever heard it before, so did a quick Google on its origins.
For anyone interested:
www.miningheritage.co.uk/snap-tin/

PyongyangKipperbang · 06/10/2017 09:25

Jock box is another one I have heard for lunch box.

Someoneasdumbasthis · 06/10/2017 11:29

Lots of lovely reverse snobbery on here about use of the term supper for an evening meal. Really passionate hatred. Always so lovey to see. If I made the same comment about hating “tea” for the evening meal and “dinner” at lunchtime I would be torn to strips and labelled a snob.

Each to their own. Why does it matter so much!!??

PorklessPie · 06/10/2017 11:32

West wales here, it's dinner then tea Grin

ShowMePotatoSalad · 06/10/2017 11:42

My dad calls a packed lunch "baggin". "Packed lunch" to me has always sounded really posh. When I say it I feel like I've got ideas above my station. Grin

yolofish · 06/10/2017 11:46

yes someone I did ask why people hated the word supper so much, think I asked twice in fact, but no one is able to define why they dislike it. Anyway it's supper in our house and if that makes us a bunch of cringey posh wankers that's fine by me!!

jellycat1 · 06/10/2017 11:51

Also hate tea used to describe dinner! Tea is something you have at 4pm with scones etc. Breakfast Lunch Dinner. Supper would be a late pre bed time snack.

kingjofferyworksintescos · 06/10/2017 12:03

Breakfast = morning
Brunch = mid to late morning
Lunch = middle of the day
Tea = light meal late afternoon or early evening
Dinner = formal evening meal
Supper = informal evening meal

Obviously you don’t go for the full set , just 2 or 3 options !

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