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To hate the term 'Tea'

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ditzyglamour · 04/10/2017 21:29

I guess I know I am as it seems the majority use it. But to me, its dinner and growing up I can never recall hearing anyone refer to it as 'Tea'.

I just find it so flowery and annoying.

Got that off my chest now 😃.

Anyone else?

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Changerofname987654321 · 04/10/2017 21:30

Nope. It depends on the time. DD and I have tea at 4.30 and DH has dinner when he come home from work after 7.

AtSea1979 · 04/10/2017 21:32

Nope I'm northern and we have tea. Dinner is something you eat around noon.

EveryoneTalkAboutPopMusic · 04/10/2017 21:32

Surely it’s regional rather than flowery?

saoirse31 · 04/10/2017 21:32

Dinner is a bigger meal than tea, yabvu to think of it as flowerySmile

LolaTheDarkdestroyer · 04/10/2017 21:32

I'm with you op I hate it, it's dinner here I can't even bring myself to call it tea it sounds silly.

Collienova · 04/10/2017 21:33

I'm with you. Dad and in laws call it tea and I call it dinner, confuses the heck out of DD (5). It doesn't matter to me when you have it, if it's your main meal in the evening, it's dinner!

RueDeWakening · 04/10/2017 21:35

You have dinner at lunchtime, tea is the evening meal, it happens at dinner time. Hope that helps GrinGrinGrin

kylerichards · 04/10/2017 21:35

It's tea time to me , brekkie , lunch , tea , on Sunday we have a Sunday dinner x

bridgetreilly · 04/10/2017 21:35

How is it flowery? It's just tea. Weird.

Soubriquet · 04/10/2017 21:36

Dinner is lunchtime
Tea is evening meal

Done and dusted

Maudlinmaud · 04/10/2017 21:36

I'm in NI too, we say tay in this part of the world. Not me of course cos I had elocution lessons. But tea doesn't bother me.

EnriqueTheRingBearingLizard · 04/10/2017 21:36

Tea is a hot drink brewed in a pot: a pot that has a cosy embracing it.

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Screwinthetuna · 04/10/2017 21:37

Completely depends on where you live. Where I am, it's 'dinner time' at 12 in school, for example, and tea in the evening. Only 'posh' people call it dinner at tea time!

ShatnersBassoon · 04/10/2017 21:37

T'int flowery, duck. It's regional.

TheLegendOfBeans · 04/10/2017 21:38

It's a Scottish thing ("you'll have had your tea") but since moving to SE England I've realised it's definitely a Northern thing too.

My DD now says "tea" when it's 5pm and she's hungry. It makes me very happy indeed Grin

FormerlyFrikadela01 · 04/10/2017 21:38

It's regional not flowery Hmm

But if we're going to play this game I hate the word supper when it's used to refer to anything except a slice of toast (or similar little tidbit) before bed.

Liliannna1 · 04/10/2017 21:38

Breakfast lunch and dinner here

coolaschmoola · 04/10/2017 21:38

Tea is different to dinner...

Incitatus · 04/10/2017 21:39

The cooked meal at around 4/5pm hasn’t really got a name.

Lunch is around midday, tea is sandwiches and twee cakes around 4pm then dinner is a cooked meal served around 8pm from what I understand.

ineedamoreadultieradult · 04/10/2017 21:39

It's weird how you say it's flowery when to me its as Northern and unflowery as you can get having grown up hearing Mam's shouting 'Ger in our John your tea's on table'

LovelyPrep · 04/10/2017 21:39

I find it less grating than 'supper'. It makes me cringe to say it.

Incitatus · 04/10/2017 21:40

I’ve researched, and apparently a light cooked meal eaten late afternoon/early evening is called high tea.

GingerMcGrey · 04/10/2017 21:41

We say tea in the Midlands. I hate "supper", posh bollocks!

MyDarlingWhatIfYouFly · 04/10/2017 21:41

Where I grew up (South Wales) you have breakfast, dinner and tea.

Hence the term dinner ladies. As far as I’m aware they don’t go round to people’s houses and supervise the evening meal Grin

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