I always thought DP and I had a very fair division of labour in our household but I've recently become aware that he does not think so.
Basically I do all the meal planning, food shopping and cooking. He washes up (no dishwasher) and I give the kitchen a quick wipe-down whilst he's doing that.
Laundry is shared but he only does clothes - I always do bedding and towels and change the bed (never discussed, he just doesn't think to do them).
He does most of the cleaning - hoovering/ dusting/ bathroom/ kitchen deep cleaning although I do occasionally do these bits. I can be quite untidy and sometimes he has to ask me to tidy my stuff away (messy hobby and I wouldn't want him tidying that up as he might ruin things!)
His chores (except washing up) usually take one weekend morning per week (small flat).
He made a comment about him doing most of the household chores and I was surprised. Yes, he usually does more chores if you list them out, but my main chore (cooking) takes up a lot more time. Usually whilst he is cleaning I am tidying, cooking or doing the online shop, not just sitting around.
Just wanted to get other people's opinions before I discuss it further with him.
No DC yet, as that's probably relevant.