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to think it's parents, not children, who are the problem in public?

30 replies

WorkingBling · 02/10/2017 15:44

No Children Spaces I read this article this morning. As a parent, I have strict rules about taking my children to places that seem appropriate and where other diners should expect to see children. But what frustrates me is when you read about a child whizzing around on its scooter, and the child is being blamed. That's the parents' fault, not the child.

Personally, I do think here are places children shouldn't go if possible because the level of behaviour expected is unrealistic for them. My children are generally well behaved, but they sometimes shout out. And they don't eat everything and they can only sit quietly drawing in a restaurant for less than an hour, so I certainly have no problem keeping them away from The Ivy and ensuring we stick to Pizza Express or similar. But surely the only way to teach them how to behave in public is to take them out in public?!

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SheepyFun · 02/10/2017 18:23

For us, DD (4) struggles with food, so meal times aren't easy for her. We do now go to Pizza Express type places, but I wouldn't take her to the Ivy. When she was 6mo, DH's family had a celebration at a Michelin starred restaurant. After some discussion, they booked a private room - there's no way a 6mo is going to quiet for 3+ hours, and we felt it was very unfair to the other diners (some of whom might have saved for months for a special meal) to inflict her on them.

Madeyemoodysmum · 02/10/2017 18:37

I was in costa the other day
A mum with a new baby was chatting to another mum and baby but she had a 2/3 year old who she was totally ignoring for the entire time. Child was wandering g around and getting in other rabies etc. Clearly bored.
Eventually and I mean at least 45 mins later she demanded attention from mum who didn't give it.

Proceeded to have a trantrum so mum had a go at her for spoiling her trip to costa. Lol.
I was Hmm
Poor kid.

Madeyemoodysmum · 02/10/2017 18:38

Tables not rabies

Madeyemoodysmum · 02/10/2017 18:39

I have 2 kids myself and would love no kid places. I would definitely use them.

Mittens1969 · 02/10/2017 19:18

A no children place would be a good idea, there are enough family friendly restaurants after all. I wouldn’t want to take my DDs to that kind of restaurant anyway but I’d love to go with my DH or a couple of friends.

The Ivy would be a lovely treat but not with my DDs. They wouldn’t appreciate upmarket food anyway, they would only say, ‘I don’t like it, yuck!’

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