The back story - 13 years ago, during an awfu time in my life, I was evicted from a private rental when my partner of five years left me for another woman. At the time I had an eight year old and was pregnant with twins. I got housed by the council in a three bedroom 1st floor flat in a really cool area close to the city centre. Fast forward thirteen years and the twins are 12, eldest left bed elsewhere and I got married this year to a lovely man. We both have good jobs, with potential to move up the career ladder. For me this is really recent. I'd planned to buy the flat I'm in at some stage, but increasingly it feels wrong. Personally, although we would receive a 40% discount due to years I've lived here, we will need to stay for another three years before we are able to legally sell or rent it out. The flat is too small for a family of four. There's no outside space and the kitchen is six by four foot, bathroom similar. There's only one room to use for living/dining. If I buy this year, the children will be almost 16 before we think about sizing up. It's been the plan since before I met my husband to do this, basically to make money on the place. It says occurred to me that I can just leave this tenancy and we can look to buy a bigger house. My husband has a property he rents out. It's still on his normal mortgage as it's been less than a year, although we will be changing to a more suitable mortgage. I want to use some remortgage money as deposit
On a new place. Morally this feels right. Or aibu?