Long story short . He's never been able to show love or emotional support . Our whole relationship is false . He sits on his own in a different room . He has never done anything for my children just me . He promised to look after me when I was ill he didn't he went back to work . His father was in hospital and just last week I heard a mouse or something like in the house . Instead of helping out he decided to staying in his fathers house while he was in hospital leaving me and my 2 children at home . Just because he could not sleep and needs to go to work . I felt abandoned and had to deal with the stress of this on my own including asking neighbours to come and lift the things . There were 2 . Son won't sleep in room now and I had my sons birthday so had to organise that . I asked for help with money for presents and what I needed . No he couldn't help . I asked for money for football lessons . No he couldn't do it . I was putting washing away when I discovered he'd bought himself all new clothes . Aghhh I am holding things together . The final straw has been the text messages to my son and nothing to me . He is 10 . I feel so let down and have wasted sooo many years on this man . I am vulnerable but know I have felt a lot happier that he has been out of the house . It's all so hard . Today though iv been feeling down about it all and don't know where to turn . Iv just read my sons text message that his father would be getting out of hospital and back to his home tomorrow and I know that means he will expect to just come home without talking but just mooch of me for rest if his life and pretend to be super dad to our children when he has never done a thing to care for them . He will not leave out home . It is in my name but I feel scared today if I'm imagining all the distress he has caused me . I can see how uncaring he is when he dies not want to hel look after his father do will never be able to caring towards me . Help ??