To hate my husband right now?!

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He's a 51 year old man child! How we've managed 20 years together I'll never know! He can't handle me when I get hormonal and I'm getting more and more hormonal by the day! And he drinks every weekend and I'm 5 weeks into giving up drinking for my own health and mental wellbeing. But it's causing problems. And we can't talk it out as it ALWAYS ends up in an argument. We never see eye to eye on anything. And I'm fed up. He's downstairs drinking listening to music and I'm sat in bed pissed off and I've just noticed he's blocked me on what's app!!! I didn't even want to message the twat anyway!! So pathetic. I'm fed up

What does being hormonal consist of?

Me feeling down and a bit depressed....just not my usual self but he just sees it as me having some sort of grievance with him.

You giving up drinking shouldn't mean that he has to and you being hormonal shouldn't mean that he has to modify his behaviour to accommodate you beyond a certain point. It sounds as though you are not compatible at the moment, for whatever reasons, so it's a question of whether you are able to overcome the difficulties you are facing or not. Is he open to the idea of counselling or bringing in a neutral third party to help you work through it?

I don't think he'd be interested in counselling at all....says it's all a load of bollocks. I certainly don't expect him to give up drinking just because I have but I just can't stand him when he's drunk. And I really mean can't stand him. I'm dreading him coming to bed. No doubt he'll turn the TV on while I'm asleep. He gets really horrible when we aren't talking

Have you considered turning him into an Ex-Husband? That usually does the trick