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Do you ever just stop and think how lucky you are?

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ProverbialOuthouse · 24/09/2017 11:04

I don't know if I'm just on a high or what (I suffer with irrational mood swings) but I often just stop and think about how lucky I am.

Example - a few nights ago I got into bed, got comfy with my iPad and thought "shit, I'm so lucky - I'm laid here in a beautiful comfy bed, in a lovely warm house, playing on an iPad with reliable wifi, a full belly and a class of clean water beside me". It's the little things. How many people at that moment would be trying to sleep in an alley way, hungry and cold and wondering if they'll make it through the night without being picked on by idiots passing by? How many people at that moment would be laid in a mucky bed, cold because the electric/gas had ran out and wondering whether the pennies they have left for the week will stretch to another meal? And I'm talking about this country (uk) alone. In other places the outlook can be so much worse.

Last night I went to grab the milk out of the fridge and a load of stuff fell out - why? Because the fridge is so full that there isn't the room for everything. I had another of my moments in thinking how lucky I am and said to DH "the fridge is so full stuff is falling out of it, arnt we lucky so have that?". He gave me a look and said "not this again!". But I can't help it!! I can't just take these things for granted, I feel they should be appreciated and acknowledged regularly. I wasn't always so lucky - there was a time when I had to choose between eating or having heating so maybe that's why I'm like this?

Not a goady or boasting thread btw and I realise that some people reading this may not be so lucky but does anyone else sometimes just stop and count their blessings over the little things? Or am I odd?

OP posts:
rainbowduck · 25/09/2017 00:45

I try to. I have four beautiful kids. I am exhausted, but I love them all and have a strong marriage. I am generally very happy and try to count my blessings.

A reminder is always good, thank you OP!

R2G · 25/09/2017 00:49

Yes so often. I don't like people like my SIL who is always moaning about her husband working too much or having to do everything. She's got three healthy kids, a cleaner, all in private education and 3 holidays a year and she doesn't have to work. Horrible outlook. I pity her.

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