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Nits. Bloody bastarding nits.

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babybythesea · 23/09/2017 21:12

Can I ask if anyone has found an effective preventative measure?
DD spent most of last year with them. It felt like I spent the entire year combing and combing and combing. We'd just get clear, 2 weeks later there'd be a letter and off we'd go again. She was clear over Easter (we did three weeks of combing every two nights and had been clear for the last week before the holidays) and a week after school starting again, she had them.
Fine all over the summer. Back at school for three weeks, and checked tonight, and yup, got them again. Only two, and big buggers, which I assume they are recent arrivals, and I am hoping we got them before they laid eggs but we are now on for another few weeks of combing.
Thing is, it's time consuming. If it was once or twice a year, fine, but it's three or four times each term. And it's expensive. I've tried the Hedrin but as they return so fast I've given up and gone back to just combing. But I go through so much conditioner that it's not cheap either. Add in the changes of bed linen and I'm losing patience.

Younger DD doesn't seem to pick them up which is good.
But what would you do at this point? I'm assuming there's a kid in her class who is just never checked. Would you talk to the teacher? I've googled it and tea tree oil comes up as a preventative. Is it any good?

WIBU to wrap her head in clingfilm each morning to stop them getting to her??!!

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Wolfiefan · 23/09/2017 22:09

Or if you have a single child in the school who isn't treated and keeps passing them back to your child again and again. Angry

Rachie1973 · 23/09/2017 22:10

I've tried it all. Literally nothing prevents them.

I spent years nitty gritty combing with buckets of conditioner 3 times a week whether they had them or not, just in case lol.

elephantoverthehill · 23/09/2017 22:11

Just as an aside, when I was at school we had the annual visit of the 'Nit Nurse'. One of my male class mates would get very excited at this prospect because he loved having fingers through his hair!

TheABC · 23/09/2017 22:17

DS had them at christmas. After 10 minutes of screaming with the lice comb, DH brought out the electric shaver. DS was happy and I can confirm that a grade one cut will get rid of all nits.

Sadly, I don't think most girls will allow this.

beccy11 · 23/09/2017 22:17

Many years since we had this delight! (Did now 16)
2 French plaits and hairspray lightly down the parting solved it for us
Good luck!

babybythesea · 23/09/2017 22:17

Just to answer some points raised: I do treat family members when DD1 comes home with them. DD2 never ever seems to pick them up. I just Hedrin DH and me.
When we find them, we comb every two days for three weeks. It's only normally (when we are not infested) that we only do once a week washing and combing.

I think it's someone in the class who is repeatedly infecting everyone. I've avoided mentioning it to the teacher but I think I'm going to have to. Fun fun fun.

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elephantoverthehill · 23/09/2017 22:21

babyI would regularly get the nit note in the book bag. 'Nits have been reported in this class please check your child's hair at home'. I think you have to report.

elephantoverthehill · 23/09/2017 22:22

I'm itching and scratching now Grin

cordeliavorkosigan · 23/09/2017 22:30

Tell the DC that they must stop standing with their heads back to back to compare their heights. That finally sorted it for us. Well, and I bought a round of non leading brand chemicals . But we stopped getting them again and again when the dc stopped putting their heads back to back!

babybythesea · 23/09/2017 22:36

I'm very interested in the school that stopped a child coming to school. I have no idea if there is a repeat culprit but the frequent re infections as soon as we go back to school would suggest so. I had assumed that there would be nothing school could do which was why I hadn't really mentioned anything (I had mentioned it in passing but not made a big deal of it). Maybe if I go in a bit more forcefully they might take it more seriously.

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babybythesea · 23/09/2017 22:37

DD could well be standing back to back - she's short and desperate to be bigger so I can see her spending time comparing herself! Will talk to her tomorrow, also about sharing hair stuff. And will make sure she always has her own hat in school so isn't using communal ones.

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Partyfops · 23/09/2017 22:46

This works for us. Vosene kids with lice repellent.

Nits. Bloody bastarding nits.
BWatchWatcher · 23/09/2017 22:48

Do you blow dry? It can fry the buggers apparently.

SD1010 · 23/09/2017 22:48

Straighteners kill them too

rainbowlou · 23/09/2017 22:51

I second straighteners!! Comb through with conditioner first, blow dry and straighten x

CruCru · 23/09/2017 22:56

You know, there are actual clinics where you can go and they will guarantee that you are nit free when you leave?

It will be no good if your child is being reinfested by another though.

maudeismyfavouritepony · 23/09/2017 23:05

My sympathy, we had them all summer

this has good reviews

QueenUnicorn · 23/09/2017 23:12

Use a lice shampoo then repeat after 8 days. That worked for us.
When you don't repeat the eggs that are left (even after combing) will hatch and continue, repeating gets the ones that hatch before they breed again.
Not a lot you can do about her catching them again though.
If you really are struggling to afford lice shampoo then you can get them prescribed for free.

GreenTulips · 23/09/2017 23:29

Vosene live repellent is just shampoo with teatree oil in and costs a bomb

elephantoverthehill · 23/09/2017 23:40

CruCru when I was in the thick of the nit infestations, I did think about offering it as a service and a possible start up. Looking as those prices perhaps I should.

babybythesea · 24/09/2017 00:00

I have tea tree oil in the medicine cabinet as I use it to soothe mosquito bites. Can I just put a few drops in her hair then? Or do I need to dilute it?
I do blow dry but I don't own straighteners. A possible Christmas present....

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elephantoverthehill · 24/09/2017 00:04

Either put the tea tree oil in the conditioner or shampoo or dilute it in a spray bottle to 'mist' every morning. Or all 3 to defend against the feckers.

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GreenTulips · 24/09/2017 22:22

Over used neat drops, never had an issue! Just stinks till it's dry!

arkestra · 24/09/2017 22:52

To prevent: tea tree oil and hair up out of the way. If you can identify who is reinfecting everyone that might help too: we have definitely come across patents who have just given up and whose kids are very heavily infested :/

To treat: nothing reliably kills eggs, which can take 10 days to hatch. It takes at least 7 days for newly hatched lice to start laying eggs. This means treating with a guaranteed killer 3 times at a 5-6 day interval should completely clear even a very heavy infestation. We found Hedrin Once was reliable: there are probably other things that work too.

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