I read, hardly ever post, please don't be nasty.
DH hasn't worked for last few years, I earn more so he was SAHD. It worked for us.
Recently we decided that DC is big enough, money is getting tight, time to go back to work. DH sent 100's of CVs, no reply. Went to register with an agency, all lovely, lots of work from September. Until he showed 2 passports. One expired with valid Permanent Residence, one valid with no visa. Sorry, we can't accept it. Ok, found another agency, no problem with 2 passports, worked for them for couple if weeks when got a phone call with interview offer. Interview followed by job offer. DH extatic. Today induction day, paperwork and passport. Well, 2 in his case. Sorry, Head Office will not accept it. DH nearly cried on the way home, as he loved everything about the job. He called Home Office to be told by 3 different people that all the employer needs to do is call them and ask to confirm his status (waiting for British Citizenship). And they can't really refuse as it will be denying him work. Called manager, she said they don't do it, but HO can call them! Uhm, no. They have more important things to do. He's been assured by HO 3 times today that it takes 2 mins, and they have line for employers especially to deal with it.
AIBU to cry out of anger that one phone call is too much for someone..?
AIBU to just hit 



tonight..?
I need a hug 