It's my birthday in a fortnight. Dh and DM have both asked for ideas. I said what I really wanted was a handy person for a day to do all the annoying jobs on my mental to to list. They both poo pooed this as not a proper present so I've had to give them other ideas but aibu to think actually I don't want any more stuff, I just want the stuff I I have to work properly? It's stuff like the towel rail in the downstairs loo rehanging and the thingy that switches the water from the bath to the shower sorting out so you don't have to use a rubber glove and all your strength. Oh and the shoe rack fixing so the drawer actually works and doesn't fall on to the floor when you open it. I could do these things myself eventually, but it'd be a treat not to need to