My ex and I broke up 4 month ago. I ended it and we did 3+ months of no contact at my instigation.
Last week he got in touch, was in the area, could he pop by and we caught up.. I stupidly thought maybe we could be friends.
Saturday he popped by. It wasn't as 'easy' as the last time and I felt uncomfortable. He kept fussing over the cat on my lap as an excuse to stroke my leg, pick off the cat hairs etc
Basically I said it was time he left for the bus and I was tired etc. He asked to stay. I said no but he asked again and again. I stayed firm and he dragged his feet about leaving and kept saying he'd probably missed the bus etc. I showed him the timetables saying he had a few buses left etc. He was just sat staring at me trying to do this intense puppy dog look but it was making me so uncomfortable.
He eventually left and I turned my phone off knowing he'd text. I woke up to a lot of lengthy messages about how I'd cast him into uncertainty and the dangerous night and how that shows what an evil person I am blah blah blah. All very dramatic and we will be permanently no contact now.
I mentioned it today to a friend and she said it was awful of me to make him leave, he could have gotten mugged etc.
For context, he's a grown man. There were multiple bus options and trains or taxis. I live in a city so he wasn't walking off down unlit country lanes or anything. It wasn't raining and was only midnight.
WIBU to "cast him into uncertainty"??