Partner of 8 years has just really upset me. We have been very stressed recently what with health problems, money worries and young dc and have both been arguing constantly. He has just told me that he never asked for children and I've trapped him by having them. I was quite young when our first ds was born and he is saying it was my fault I fell pregnant and I wanted to trap him. Obviously it was both our doing and I was very naive to think I wouldn't fall pregnant. We also have 12 month old twins, which again were my fault (apparently) as twins run in my family. He does love the dc very much but these comments are very hurtful for me to hear. He says it whilst our eldest can hear and that upsets me deeply. He has now stormed off saying he can't believe he has ended up with a cry baby for a wife! This has hurt me. Am I just being too delicate?