My DD was sick this week, had a very bad cold but high temperature all week. It hit her really hard. My DS was invited to a friend's house for a playdate. Friend had vomited on Tuesday, but I assumed by Saturday he was recovered, as he had been in school since Wednesday (only off for one day but that's another thread...). The friend's mother was aware that my DD had been poorly all week with her cold. When my DH collected my DS, it transpired (her husband told my husband) that friend's mother now had the vomiting bug but they had carried on the playdate without saying a word! She texted me ten minutes before we dropped him off and said nothing and apparently they had known at this point. According to my DS, there was no attempt to quarantine her - she was in the living room watching TV, he was directed to her ensuite to go to the toilet etc. They have a very small house, at any rate. I am beyond furious - who on earth has a playdate with an active tummy bug in the house?! I want to text her and tell her she should have told me and give me the opportunity to cancel - we could have had the playdate any week - but my DH says to leave it. Would you text?