This wedding is taking over my life and it's not even Mine!

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Ffs friends of ours getting married and the stag dos and wedding has taken over every weekend in September and is costing a bloody fortune! We've commuted to it now and have had to cancel things to afford it ffs people and their weddings

Its a huge investment of time and money for no reward really. Yes, I get some are all about the warm and fuzzies blah blah blah but accepting the request of best man doesn't always have to cost a Kings ransom.

I don't understand whats wrong with a night on the tiles with a few plastic willies. Any member of the wedding party or close friend will feel obligated to attend these weekends away. I went on one to Dublin once, cost a bloody fortune and just felt like I was an add on to subsidise the bride and her bridesmaids. Never again.

Hang in there OP, we are half way through the month, not long

Yep after this I'll defo be working full time after mat leave as dp obviously wants to waste money so I'll look after mine

And the venue for the wedding has a 0 star for hygiene so I'll be borking trying to eat the food

Oh good Lord OP < not envy. Take a pack up and tell them most food makes you sick what with all the pregnancy and everything so you will juat quietly nibble on your cheese n pickle roll and bag of ready salted thanks all the same

I know I feel ill at the thought of it

How did all the weekends go OP?