To fucking hate my STBXH

[PickleFactory]

It's me again, sorry just really, really need to offload.

You may have seen my recent threads, just told twaty H that I want a divorce. I'm SAHM and have 2DC.

H told me today that he might go for full custody, that's unlikely, or go pt so he can have his DC more. If he goes pt this will fuck me up big time and he knows it. He will only have to pay me around £300 a month in maintenance and he won't qualify for spousal maintenance which he would if he stayed ft.

How the hell will I cope financially? Yet he says he's worried how I will cope and he says this.

Really fucking hate him now.

Euphemia I spoke to my sol about this recently and she said if he does go pt, the courts will see that he's done it on purpose and will still be ordered to pay me the same in maintenance as he would if he was ft. Of course I've not told his this, hehe.

I agree with Fizzy. I think it's just a threat to scare you. When I threatened to leave my OH he said he wanted to keep our two DD under 3, even though he couldn't even cope with looking after them for a couple of hours.

Focus on getting a job and do not give up
I think that's your best option now

Even something menial and low paid will help get you back into it

What about customer services , ground staff type stuff

Remember that when working there will be benefits available to help you

Well done for getting clarity and keep on trucking xxxxx