DD is nearly 18 and has ASD. She's just come home from college and told me there's a trip to New York that's £1100 and would have to be paid by December. She just said "I know we can't afford it so I thought maybe next year and I can save up a bit too." It's probably because I'm poorly atm but I burst into tears because I would love so much for her to be able to go but £550 per month just before Christmas is unfeasible.