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AIBU?

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To be so annoyed with this family on holiday?

72 replies

hana32 · 14/09/2017 11:51

Am on a long-awaited lovely holiday at a European resort. Booked for September as it would be cheaper and quieter, kids back at school etc, but still great weather. We have sun beds by the edge of the pool. Around us are other families (with babies or toddlers), couples etc. It's all been relatively quiet all week which has been so nice and relaxing. Then yesterday a family arrived with 3 children - two clearly school aged - and set up next to us. They were so loud all day, children running around our sun beds shouting, splashing us, a little annoying but I thought understandable (other than why are they not in school?) as they're just kids enjoying their holiday.

An hour ago they arrived at the pool and again have gone for the sunloun
ngers next to us. The kids are shouting and yelling as before. But worse, the mother has decided to play music on her phone, with no headphones. It's been going on for an hour now and it's really irritating me and spoiling my enjoyment. One of the reasons I chose this hotel (I've been here before) was for the peaceful poolside atmosphere (lovely sun beds, no music blasting out etc). I would've moved sunbeds to get away from them but it's filled up now and there aren't many other options.

AIBU to think they are pretty inconsiderate?? Sound of kids playing is fine, inevitable (although they are the only school aged kids here), but why should me and my family - and others around us - be subjected to their music? I want to ask the woman to use headphones but am not bold enough!

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Runningpear · 14/09/2017 12:51

Kick a pint of lager over her phone. Or a pint of whatever is the 'done drink' in a 5* place Grin

Iheartjordanknight · 14/09/2017 12:52

Obviously not fussed which country it's in either Grin it's the blue lagoon in Kos

LakieLady · 14/09/2017 12:54

Smoking AND playing music on a phone?

Definitely get a villa next year, the place is obviously full of riff-raff.

Allwashedup · 14/09/2017 12:55

OP I feel for you. It is very selfish and inconsiderate of her. Have been in a similar situation before. I don't think there is much which can be done about the kids, but do speak to the hotel staff about the music. Probably not worth speaking to her in case she gets abusive, sadly this is often the case these days.
Good luck, hope you get it sorted.

Butterymuffin · 14/09/2017 12:55

All these nightmare villa threads are making me feel better about not being on holiday. If that helps.

SoPassRemarkable · 14/09/2017 12:56

You need to out annoy her so she pisses off away from you

Butterymuffin · 14/09/2017 12:57

Villa or hotel. People who've paid money for a nice place to stay, whatever it is.

Ask her to turn the music off or put headphones on. That's perfectly reasonable.

IfYouGoDownToTheWoodsToday · 14/09/2017 12:57

photos or it ain't happening Grin

RiseToday · 14/09/2017 12:58

Go to the beach, go on a sightseeing tour, go and get pissed in the bar, go and get something to eat, go back to your room and have a shag - lots of options to get away from them! There is really no need to sit there all day quietly seething.

Then tomorrow pick the sun loungers at the farthest point away from where you are today and hope you don't end up lumbered with them again.

Seriously though, you're at a 5* resort that you said has been quiet all week and yet there are no loungers left? I would ask the staff to bring you a couple, there must be some more kicking around?

Allwashedup · 14/09/2017 12:58

**Viviennemary

It only takes one lot of noisy, rude folk to ruin the peace and quiet of a holiday. These people never seem to realise what total pains they are. They should go somewhere where they can mix with their own kind and then they won't annoy other people because everyone will be the same.

Agree, but I think these people do realise what they're doing and have no respect or consideration for anyone else. As long as they're ok, it doesn't matter.

Fia256 · 14/09/2017 13:01

I actually feel for you. It's easy enough to ask politely to turn the music off or down, but at the same time people can be very funny and I know personally the last thing I'd want is for my holiday to be ruined if she took offence to it.
If I were you, just mention it to the hotel staff. If they do nothing, then tomorrow just sit on a different side of the pool. It's not worth getting so wound up over

But as far as the shock of school children being out of school on holiday goes. I think you were being a little naive to assume no families will go away in term time...

Funnyface1 · 14/09/2017 13:05

Sing along in a tone deaf manner. Also, you could make up passive aggressive lyrics.

x2boys · 14/09/2017 13:10

Their on holiday the kids will be excited and so what if they Are out of school the school will have either authorised it or not if not they will get a fine and that's up to the parents anyway just ask the mum to turn the music down as for the smoking well it's outside and not everywhere bans smoking in public places if that's all you have to worry about I would happily swap places with you?

Smellyoulateralligater · 14/09/2017 13:25

There are child free resorts in future. A friend has booked one for this very reason.

I'd probably just move or stick headphones on

5foot5 · 14/09/2017 13:31

Isn't there anything else to do other than sit by the pool all day?

Urubu · 14/09/2017 13:33

Ask the staff to handle it.
If they say they can't do anything, ask her yourself, if she says no, play your own music as well and play it next to her, at a higher volume.

QueenCarpetJewels · 14/09/2017 13:33

YANBU about the noise, ask her to turn it down. She might be perfectly willing.

YABU to be judgey about kids on holiday during term-time. School is not compulsory.

They're also smoking!

Mummyoflittledragon · 14/09/2017 13:41

Are you sure you haven't picked the smoking area? I went to the same hotel twice and it was only on the second visit that I worked out where it was.

Setting up on 2 sets of loungers is a great idea!

Mombie2016 · 14/09/2017 13:44

Play Slipknot really loud.

SallySmiley · 14/09/2017 14:09

I'm totally going to get flamed for this.
My DH and I usually go away outside school holidays so it's cheaper and quieter.
We generally find that the school age children being brought abroad then are badly behaved.
I would hazard that not valuing education has repercussions in other areas of parenting.

Iheartjordanknight · 14/09/2017 14:17

No sally you just notice them more

GiantSteps · 14/09/2017 14:42

Or just get chatting to her and find out the DC's school and then report them

This Grin Grin

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