Update - missed Grammar School application

[sososocross]

So many people have kindly sent pm and a couple of update threads have been started so I wanted to update.

Firstly I really want to thank you all for your help and kindness. I was in a state and without you all I would have lost the plot. You women rule 🏅

Update: They are not letting him do the test and I have told DS. I made the choice to tell him in a vague way and simply stated that something had gone wrong and his application had not been received. I will not lie to him if he asks for more details at a later date, but I couldn't take away his chosen school and his image of his dad in one cruel swoop.

He cried and asked me to sort it out, and I told him I had tried and couldn't. I told him my alternate plans and he relaxed. I also told him I would be coming home early 2x per week from here on, and we would work together on homework, extra study or whatever he chose. If he wants to register for the 12 or 13 plus I will do all I can to assist him. Then we watched guardians of the galaxy and had big cuddle up on the sofa.

So that's where we are.

I am sorry to those I irritated by deleting the thread, I was very worried about the daily mail and any come back. I hope you understand I was having a crisis and listed inappropriate details which could identify my son on the thread.

Please don't mention school details on this thread as I'd rather it all remain anonymous for his sake.

Thanks again for all the kindness, it meant the world to me.

[HamiltonCork]

So happy that he has settled in well.

(Is anyone else as stunned as me that this all happened a year ago? Seems like 2 or 3 months at best).

[Frazzled2207]

Golly a year 

[gingergenius]

That's brilliant.

[JamPasty]

Oh that is wonderful news!! Bloody well done to you all!!!

[Xenia]

For those not wanting to scroll back to p23

"He passed!

Came in the top 100 so will be able to go where ever he wants to. I think I'm going to pass out. Time to celebrate. OMG"

Well done.

[WilyMinx]

I read this thread last year, when I'd just joined Mumsnet. So glad how everything worked out, and the latest update is making me teary. How has your DH been in the past year? Any improvements?

[PourMeAGlassOfMilk]

Wonderful news about your DS settling in well OP.

[Jengnr]

I drive past that school a couple of times a week and always think of you. I wondered if he’d gone there (I never saw the update about him passing). Lovely news. Well done xxx

[littlestrawby]

oh OP i missed all of this last year and just read the whole thread (not realising it was from last year until your latest update!). I cried with happiness for your son on results day! Lovely to hear he's enjoying it. Hope all is well with you and your DH

[Maccycheesefries]

Well done op. To protect your privacy ask hq to move this to the 30 days only thread where it will disappear after a month to avoid the vultures from swooping.