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AIBU?

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To wish parents would send their kids in the correct uniform

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coffeekittens · 12/09/2017 14:20

Totally prepared to be told IABU.

My DD has just started school, friends and family have been sending their children for years and many of my friends are TAs and MDS within the school, just for context.

We've all received a letter home stating that due to trainers being worn and Dr Marten boots (uniform policy is no lace up boots or trainers) that all children are to wear black shoes only - no boots allowed. (There was also a reminder that it's school jumper/cardi, white polo top and grey trousers, dress, skirt etc with either white or grey socks/tights).

I questioned this with my friends who are TA's as I was confused if it was just for whilst the weathers still mild as I'd like DD in boots for winter ideally. They've said it's throughout the year and wellies/snow boots can be worn in adverse weather at playtime and for going home only.

They've said it's because a small number of families have repeatedly flounted the uniform policy, sending their children in the incorrect uniform as it conflicts their own personal beliefs etc. To me that's just disrespecting authority and doesn't show their children a good example.

Now teaching time and/or break time is by the looks of it going to be impacted due to having to faff around changing footwear etc.

I just wish that parente would respect the wishes of the head and the schools uniform policy as now EVERYONE is affected. (It's not a financial thing either as all of said footwear is branded and far for expensive than a pair of school shoes).

Reading back I feel like I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill, I'm only mildly annoyed, it's just one of those things where you think, just why? It's a school rule, it doesn't affect the child's well-being so just follow it ffs!

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youarenotkiddingme · 12/09/2017 17:30

I find it odd that a school would refuse children lace up boots Confused

Ds attended a school that wouldn't allow boots either - like smart boots and shoes look any different under a pair of trousers?

As he has foot/leg problems I sourced a pair of Pedro boots and said he was wearing them for medical reasons.
Out of the whole school year he only got pulled up twice by teachers on it - and I bet it's because most didn't care notice!

And I'm a fan of uniform and can't understand why parents buy kids stuff that's not allowed.

Pengggwyn · 12/09/2017 17:34

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x2boys · 12/09/2017 17:38

I loved my purple velvet Doc Martens in the 90,s I also had the regulation black ones too but I just don't get it either my son has to wear block socks why exactly ?

youarenotkiddingme · 12/09/2017 17:54

So the issue with boots is no different to the shoes one?!

The school states no boots and no canvas/open toed/ high heel/suede or trainer shoes.

I agree with OP that I can't understand why parents can't just provide leather/ upper leather shoes or boots rather than trying to buy a fashion shoe and causing everyone else to have to wear unsuitable shoe wear.

I wish infant schools still did wellies/outdoor shoes to school and change into plimsolls! Made travelling with a little one to school much easier and also meant the muddy puddles they'd trapped through didn't ruin outdoor shoes.

And NO - I didnt allow ds to do it but it didn't always go to plan!

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