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DSIS and her knob of an ex

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MummysMaison · 12/09/2017 12:17

Hello,

I'm trying to support my DSIS who has just separated from her 'D'H. They have 2 children under 10. He was very nasty to her initially. She left because of his drinking habit and he was never around for the children. She has recently received a court application which states he provided all the childcare, meals, bedtime routines etc and has since been denied access which is a complete lie! He is expecting to not only see the children 3-4 the per week and have them weekends (difficult with work school etc) but also wishes to talk to them on facetime every day several times. How is my DSIS expected to be able to facilitate his demands? Would a judge allow this?

AIBU to think that she can gather witness statements/facebook evidence to show he is lying out of his arse, a drunk and currently playing 'Disney Dad of the Year', which he never was before they split!!

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Whitecurrants · 12/09/2017 12:54

Sounds like she could use some legal advice

nocake · 12/09/2017 12:59

Family courts are generally not stupid and will have seen a thousand liars. She should get some legal advice about how to handle this.

RaspberryOverload · 12/09/2017 13:34

Your sis needs legal advice pronto, and to gather all evidence that proves he's lying.

And make sure she doesn't discuss anything financial with him, some of this sort of claim has a lot to do with reducing payments, etc.

Nomoresunshine · 12/09/2017 13:52

His application is simply his version. . Doesn't mean a judge will believe him!!
She needs to see a solicitor. .
No she def wouldn't have to let the dc face time him every night. She will be entitled to enjoy the j dc on her time without his intrusion. .

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