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AIBU?

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Wwyd really. Ex friend and group.

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booloobalooloo · 11/09/2017 19:27

I'm struggling to make a decision and hoping maybe you can help me. I am aware it is all going to seem very high school.
Made friends with friend A as have DC a similar age. Friend B ( a friend of friend A) suggested we go to a mum and tots group she attends and i become friendly with her too.
I then fall out massively with friend A. Have posted about it on here and was told pretty much unanimously that she WBU AND bullying and I should get away from her. We all carried on attending group but friend A would ignore me completely and my DC. She also prevented friend B from speaking to me as she would be really stroppy if she did so I talked to other mums so that it didn't cause issues for friend B. Have built up friendly relationships with others there but friend A only talked to friend B.
Over the summer friend B has now also fallen out with (ex) friend A. Partly due to her behaviour around me.
We are trying to decide what to do about going to this group. Friend A made it really awkward when we had fallen out, and wasn't very nice to my DC. But AIBU to think now there are two of us maybe it wouldn't be so bad? I'm keen to go as I made some friends there and also feel like if we don't go friend A will have 'won' on her bullying campaign.
WWYD?

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Mustardnowletsnotbesilly · 11/09/2017 19:29

Oh Lord ignore ignore ignore Friend A. I wouldn't change my plans for this woman. Just be polite and give her nothing to moan about. Having fun and being happy is the best revenge.

Hisnamesblaine · 11/09/2017 19:29

Just go. She might not go anymore if she didn't make the effort with anyone else

Teebird669 · 11/09/2017 20:33

Common denominator = (ex) friend a

BenLui · 11/09/2017 20:35

Carry on going to the group and be scrupulously polite to Friend A.

Anecdoche · 11/09/2017 20:49

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