Opinions on 'fundraising'

[Nomoresunshine]

I have opted out of a particular fund raiser as it isn't for charity but for a dc out of school activity type thing. . Trying to be vague in case of outing. .
Seems I am the only dp who this isn't sitting right with. .
Just want opinions on fund raising ethics if you would be so kind.
I have explained it to dd and she agrees with me (own mind very most definitely!!).

I have told them she won't be going in the limo but I will be paying for the activity and the food venue. . I have messaged the group chat to that effect and left the group. After lots of' aw we won't have her let out you can fundraise with us etc. '
Dd agrees. .
Her df is taking her in his flash rally car anyway and she is more than happy with that!!
Thanks for the comments. .

Driving in a car for an hour. Is that the extent of their ambition? Bit sad...

Not sure they realise it won't have 11 seatbelts in either. . And some are very full on about their pfb!!