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18 replies

Troubleshootingforever · 09/09/2017 19:50

Is it ever ok to throw caution to the wind and do something youve no idea will work out? I have a very stressful job, and I have been feeling quite burnt out over the last two years. I have a job offer on the table but I can't actually make the leap and keep chopping and changing my mind. Current job is within the nhs. Good opportunity for additional training courses etc. Base is close to home. I'm very familiar with the job, legislation procedures etc. There is Lots of driving involved and responding to client crises. Can be emotionally harrowing at times. I find all the driving exhausting. The hours are 9-5 however working over this is the norm so may not finish until 6.30, 7pm three evenings per week, can be unpredictable. Manager nice but dim and therefore not good at providing advice or guidance. Team is in crisis with a lot of sick leave and turnover of new staff etc. Cuts to services make the job difficult. Being so familiar with the job can mean I find it actually boring even though it's so busy and stressful. New job - This is a well known large national private company and employees are entitled to discounts and free products. Same benefits as nhs such as paid sick leave and pension. Role is completely different to my current job, not dealing with crisis but rather target driven with regular appraisals so I'm sure that will have it's own stresses. No idea of the team or manager set up. Base is 25 miles away but next door to a train station. £3000 less per annum I'm worried I'm being foolish to walk away from a secure job to take a chance on a lesser paid job. But then again I feel I have lost my soul due to my current job. But do I want to walk away from my career and all my training for something completely different? I'm also conscious that private companies can make redunacies and terminate much more ruthlessly than the nhs Anyone had similar experience either way please let me know how it panned out for you.

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Crunchymum · 09/09/2017 20:14

Is there a 3rd option as neither sound 'right for your needs?

Crunchymum · 09/09/2017 20:15

Target driven jobs always ring alarm bells with me, add the 'regular appraisals' to this and I would be very dubious indeed.

MyPatronusIsAUnicorn · 09/09/2017 20:18

I couldn't cope with a target driven job that was 3k less. I think I'd stay where I was and keep looking.

Troubleshootingforever · 09/09/2017 20:19

Why dubious about targets etc? Current job has targets, statutory timescales and racing against the clock.

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Italiangreyhound · 09/09/2017 20:22

If you need to be talked into the new job my guess would be it is not for you.

But I would explore a third option that picks up the bits of your current situation that you like.

JoJoSM2 · 09/09/2017 20:25

I would look for Plan C. Sounds like you've had enough of the current role but the other alternative doesn't sound great - perhaps lesser evil rather than something you actually want to do. I think I'd hold out for something that you are likely to enjoy and be passionate about.

Troubleshootingforever · 09/09/2017 20:26

Sorry I've maybe worded it wrongly. I'm 99% mind up to take the new job. The other 1% is pulling me back whispering things about job security and money. And what I am curious about is others experiences of this working out for them or not

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silverbell64 · 09/09/2017 20:28

I'd not go to another almost similar job for less pay and an awful pension prospect.

MadameMaxGoesler · 09/09/2017 20:29

How do the pension schemes compare?

MadameMaxGoesler · 09/09/2017 20:30

Oops! sorry - you covered that.

SABeeTiger · 09/09/2017 20:34

I handed in my notice with no job to go to. I am starting a new job in two weeks, less money but I feel 3 stone lighter already (I need the body to catch up with the mind now!) Health is more important! People have been telling me for weeks it's the best decision I have made, I'm doing it for me and I feel guilty for that but you have to do what's right for you x

silverbell64 · 09/09/2017 20:42

If you weren't happy there then its the right choice.

Troubleshootingforever · 09/09/2017 20:45

Sabee... brave decision! Hope it all works out for you too.

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ppandj · 10/09/2017 08:08

OP I did a similar thing a couple of years ago. I left a relatively nice but boring job to pursue a new paid-training opportunity/job for less money. I thought it was what I wanted career-wise, but discovered after about 2 months that it truly was not for me. I did go on maternity leave from said job and perhaps pregnancy (hormones and changes etc) coloured my experience of it. Anyway, while I was on maternity leave, a job came up that was my original role but different hours and new team. I love it and it has opened up loads of new opportunities for me, I work with an amazing team and I really do feel happily settled there for the foreseeable future. Mine was all within the NHS (in a fashion, current employer is an NHS provider).

So my opinion is that while the original risk didn't pay off because I hated the new job, it lead to me finding a job that I love and all in all was worth taking the chance.

valeinoyikbuno · 10/09/2017 08:16

You said they both have a pension but if the NHS one is final salary and the new one is defined contribution/money purchase then I wouldn't move except for a £5k increase.

Gorgosparta · 10/09/2017 08:25

I took a decision to move to a less well paid job because of job security.

I actually work for a company that has my old company as a client. So i still work for my original company on a day to day basis. The original company has redunancies quite often. Both are private and i have more security as i can work with any client.

Since joining the new company i have worked for another huge client and changed my job role completely. I also got a pay rise 6 months in so on similar money now.

But alot of this depends on your set up. If tgis had gone horribly wrong, i am lucky that dh wage can more then cover bills. Private companies can be shits for passing probabtion periods. Especially in sales environments. Their training CAN be quite poor and lack support.

My risk paid off. I love my job.

Gorgosparta · 10/09/2017 08:26

I would say the commute would put me off though. I have always been lucky enough to work with 20 min drive of work. If i had to do a longer commute i would, but only if i was desperate.

Witsender · 10/09/2017 09:07

The target driven bit would put me off. Sounds salesy?

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