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Just had a dry (!) haircut given by a nail technician (!) AIBU to complain?

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AliW68 · 08/09/2017 23:16

I made a hair appointment in the spa at my gym last time I went for a haircut. The appointment was to see the same stylist again. I got a call a week or so ago to say the stylist had left and they could give me an appointment for today at the same price with a different stylist. That was all fine. When I arrive I recognise the stylist as being someone who usually, to my knowledge, does facials. Don't you do beauty treatments, I asked. Yeah and I also do haircuts, sometimes, she replied, laughing. Sometimes, I queried, giving a nervous laugh in reply. Oh yes, she says merrily sitting me down and putting a cape on me.
So she's very nice and jolly, and keeps calling me sweetie, which disarms me for some reason, and the English embarrassment thing kicks in and I wimpily sit there thinking this has disaster written all over it whilst being unable to leg it as I know I should.
She discusses how much I want cut off and I reign in my request to a mere inch thinking that gives me spare hair in case it all goes wrong and then she starts to spray my hair with water. I ask is she not going to wash it. Oh no, I wash it after I've cut she says, merrily, as is evidently her wont.
I've never had that done before, I say feeling really alarmed now. Oh, every stylist does it differently she says, merrily, obviously.
I've got thick shoulder length hair in a long bob sort of style with no layers as such - I just have a bit of the 'weight' taken out at the bottom usually.
It's just been lightly sprayed so it's not wet at all and she proceeds to comb it (which rather hurts because it's not at all wet) and then cuts straight round the bottom in one fail swoop without sectioning it. She then starts lifting up chunks, again without dividing the hair into sections, dragging the comb through to layer the ends. (This really hurts because my thick hair is bone dry!)
I again say, I've never had my haircut like this before. Oh really she says looking surprised, how has it been done before? And I detail how, apart from it usually (always!) being washed first, it is usually (always!) sectioned into layers before being cut. Oh, every stylist does it differently, I get again.
I then see her business card and she is described as 'Nail Technician, Esthetician, Stylist'.
Matters don't improve. Bizzarelly she shampoos me three times - again, something that has never happened before at a hairdresser's!
So the long and short of it is I've been given a really bad haircut by a nail technician, who is incredibly pleasant, and I have been too much of a drip to say she has done a really, really rough job and instead I smile limply when she asks how I like it, hand over somewhere in the region of £45 (I'm overseas), and walk out planning to go elsewhere to pay again (!) to have it put right.
Do I complain to the salon manager? My hesitation is that although I think it's the salon's fault for giving someone a role cutting hair when they demonstrably don't know what they are doing, I fear it will be the sweet woman who will get it in the neck or who will end up feeling bad. Do I just write it off to experience (and let someone else kick up a fuss)?

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Slartybartfast · 08/09/2017 23:21

You should complain, yes, not. necessarily about the dry cut but about the bad cut, and the washing afterwards is bizarre

ClandestineAdulation · 08/09/2017 23:28

Definitely complain. She might've been lovely and friendly and so on, but if you've come away unhappy (and our of pocket!) you should definitely say something to the salon manager.

MrsOverTheRoad · 08/09/2017 23:36

Which country are you in? Definitely complain!

kali110 · 08/09/2017 23:52

How do you know she isn't also a hairdresser? Some are trained in multiple things.
If the cut isnt right id simply ring up and say this.

WetsTheFinger · 09/09/2017 00:00

Her card says stylist - is that not meaning hair stylist?

YABU for not being an adult at the time and telling the women you didn't like the cut.

DoesAnyoneReadTheseThings · 09/09/2017 00:09

A stylist is a hairdresser....

fullofhope03 · 09/09/2017 00:41

Sounds as if this 'stylist' is a Jack of all Trades and master of none (or at least not a master of cutting hair).
The way OP described it sounds pretty appalling. Though, she should have spoken up immediately.

fullofhope03 · 09/09/2017 00:45

AliW68 - Perhaps call and ask to speak to the woman directly? Explain that you're not 100% happy with the cut and go in and have her do it [properly] this time. Shampoo before, section (especially as you have thick hair), then a check and possibly a little more trimmed when dry. Flowers

Twitchingdog · 09/09/2017 00:51

What is wrong with hair cut?

AlmostAJillSandwich · 09/09/2017 00:52

You shouldn't have let her cut it. They sound desperate to not lose business now their actual hair dresser has left, and are letting an untrained, or at least badly trained/novice who isn't up to the job, take over her role.
I honestly don't get why at no point you didn't stop her. When it became evident she wasn't sectioning your hair, and she picked up the scissors, you should have stopped her. Absolutely no way you should have lied and pretended to like it and then pay for it.
I'm as shy, awkward and socially anxious as they come, and even i would have spoken up and not gone through with it when it became evident she didn't know what she was doing.

Reppin · 09/09/2017 01:10

She is a hairdresser it says so on her card (stylist) It is not unusual for many hairdressers to initially train in other areas of cosmetology. Often precision cuts are done dry. The bad haircut is another matter though, if you are not happy with it you should not have paid.

MrsOverTheRoad · 09/09/2017 08:06

Stylist can mean many things.

A "Hairstylist* is something different. The fact that the word hair doesn't come before stylist is iffy.

RaspberryOverload · 09/09/2017 08:29

Stylist can mean anything. Doesn't just mean hairdresser. I know a food stylist, doesn't mean I'm going to let them near my hair.

I'd complain about the bad cut, etc.

TheHatOfDoom · 09/09/2017 11:07

There's nothing wrong with a dry haircut. I have mine done dry (I miss a wet cut but it's not possible now) and it's never been a problem so I wouldn't complain about that. But it sounds like there was a lot else wrong with the cut. Definitely complain, it doesn't matter how nice the woman is you didn't like the cut and they need to make it right.

Reppin · 09/09/2017 20:37

Yes, of course stylist can mean anything (clothes, food, etc) but in the case of someone who is a cosmetologist it is pretty obvious what stylist means.

Reppin · 09/09/2017 20:39

Also,, the OP states she is not in the UK, where I live 'stylist' is used exclusively for the occupation of hairdresser, in fact the word hairdresser is hardly used at all.

RoganJosh · 09/09/2017 20:41

How did the actual haircut end up? Does it look ok?

TitaniasCloset · 10/09/2017 01:22

I would love to see the haircut. What's it like?

SweetLuck · 10/09/2017 01:26

Photo or it didn't happen! Grin

Bintang · 10/09/2017 01:34

That sounds quite strange... but I would probably gone along with it too Blush
Is it somewhere ME?

PlopGoesTheWeasel · 10/09/2017 01:36

You should have spoken up. It is not "English embarrassment." That is just a term people use to excuse themselves for being, quite frankly, a wet blanket.

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Sleephead1 · 10/09/2017 06:48

When you go to college to do hair or beauty you can also do a longer course that does both so you would be a beauty therapist and a hairdresser when you qualified. I think this might be the case here so she is both but is employed as a beauty therapist and as hair dresser has left they have asked her to fill in. If you think she has only qualified as a beauty therapist then she will have no idea how to cut hair and really it will be no different to some random person cutting your hair i would be very suprised if a buisness owner is letting this happen. But yes i would ring and speak to the manager.

Supermagicsmile · 10/09/2017 06:51

Photo?!

AliW68 · 10/09/2017 17:10

Wet blanket here. (Harsh but fair!) Hard to photograph my wonky hair but here goes - it is supposed to be a blunt, one length bob. Take the point that she could be a (hair) stylist and a nail technician (and esthetician!) but thought the ordering of skills was illuminating. Have left message asking salon manager to call back.

Just had a dry (!) haircut given by a nail technician (!) AIBU to complain?
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