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WIBU to carry on smiling

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Fidoandacupoftea · 08/09/2017 15:50

At a meeting today speaking to someone from another organisation.The lady was very polite and informative but just did not smile (had quite a serious face) when speaking to me or the others. I felt a bit strange but carried on with a smiling face, my colleague thinks I looked a bit silly. WIBU (the conversation was mundane and nothing serious)

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Fidoandacupoftea · 08/09/2017 15:55

She mentioned that she had had a really good summer holiday, so don't think there were any other issues

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Phosphorus · 08/09/2017 15:59

If your colleague felt the need to mention it, you might have been a bit over the top.

There's something a bit unnerving and false about Hilary Clinton style manic grinning and nodding.

It makes people think you are not actually listening to them.

AnotherGreenDot · 08/09/2017 15:59

Unless the meeting was about something very sad or upsetting, YANBU. A smile costs nothing!

PollyFlint · 08/09/2017 16:03

my colleague thinks I looked a bit silly

Did you literally smile non-stop for the entire conversation? Do you always do that?

I think most people just sort of smile intermittently, don't they? I think for your colleague to notice that you were non-stop smiling, you might perhaps have gone a bit over the top?

Perhaps it might have looked a bit sarcastic or unnerving for the other speaker if you had a fixed grin for the duration of the meeting rather than just smiling in the natural breaks in the conversation or when you greet someone/say something funny or whatever.

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