I'm fairly sure I'm right but just in case there is a different opinion! Firstly important geographic information. We live on a close of around 20 houses, secluded from the village, down a long drive, open countryside to three sides, a large hedge on the other seperating our close from the next street. Everyone knows everyone's face who lives here, if not names. Kids play out on bikes, it's a dead end, so traffic would be people who live here, visitors or deliveries.
My DD who's 6 has made friends with a neighbours daughter who's 5, they've been in and out of each other's houses all summer. I went out to the shops, leaving my husband with our 3 year old, and 6 year old who was playing up in her bedroom with the neighbours 5 year old. Neighbours were outside on the close working on their garden.
When I came home, husband mentioned he'd already walked our dog, I asked where the girls had been, he said he took the youngest, I assumed the oldest went round to her friend, but no he'd left them in the house. He was away 20-30 minutes in the neighbouring fields, so within eyeline of the close but not the house. He told the neighbours he was going out, the back gate and door were open, but I'm not sure the neighbours would have heard the girls if they'd shouted.
He sees nothing wrong with this, I do!! He just can't see why I'm angry, aibu?