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To think something must be wrong with me?

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OverTheHammer · 06/09/2017 14:52

I go through stages of not been arsed with ANYTHING. I become tired, lethargic, melancholy and basically just can't be arsed.

A few months ago I joined a gym, was going 4/5 times a week, really enjoying it and now all of a sudden I just can't be arsed. I also can't be arsed to take my beloved dog for a walk or go to karate which I normally love. I just want to get in my pyjamas and vegetate.

All of a sudden I'll snap out of it and be all energetic and motivated again but right now, I just really can't be arsed to do ANYTHING.

It can't be normal to be like this?! I'm only 36. DH thinks I'm just lazy. Is he right?

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Crunchymum · 06/09/2017 14:54

Do the 'slumps' happen around your period?

OverTheHammer · 06/09/2017 14:56

Sometimes but this one is right in the middle of my cycle when I should be at my best!

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TheMaddHugger · 06/09/2017 14:58

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Is it possible you do too much in those busy times and your body just needs a rest ?

arousingcheer · 06/09/2017 15:30

To be fair I think everything is thyroid-related, so of course I'm going to ask if you have hypothyroid symptoms and, if so, if your thyroid has been tested?

Just before I was diagnosed I had an episode at the gym where I became exhausted (could hardly walk, thought I might not be able to drive myself home) and from then had no energy to train. I had other symptoms aside from fatigue (always cold, weak, pale, dry skin etc).

Eventually after treatment I began to feel better and was able to return to regular exercise.

Of course there can be a lot of causes for apathy/fatigue and this is just one. Smile Iron deficiency is a common one, as is too little sleep.

NewPantsforaNewYear · 06/09/2017 15:35

I was going to suggest iron. Mine got really low - not quite anemic but v nearly. The doctor gave me iron tablets which have helped a lot.

One of my friends swears by Floradix when she's feeling a bit slumped.

OverTheHammer · 06/09/2017 16:24

Thanks for the replies, I am anaemic so maybe it's that my levels have dropped too low again. I've booked in for a blood test x

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TieGrr · 06/09/2017 16:25

Vitamin D is good for energy levels as well.

Although I need to take my own advice and start taking it again.

Toddlerdramas · 06/09/2017 16:43

I'm not sure but just wanted to say I'm exactly the same. I hate myself for it sometimes.

I have weeks where I'm full of energy then weeks where I literally can't be arsed to do anything. Also get really clumsy and make lots of silly mistakes.

Sometimes it's related to my menstrual cycle.

I also have two kids that make lots of mess and that gets me down. I seem to spend all my life picking everything up.

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