First time poster, so please be gentle! The situation is this: I asked ex-h to help me move an old sofa out of former marital home so it could be picked up by council's bulk uplift. He agreed. As is standard with council, they stipulated it could only be moved onto street the night before and be ready for pick up at 6am. It leaves a narrow window to do what is a 15 minute job. Ex- h originally said he'd come after work day before and help out. But on the day, he said he's going for a couple of drinks after work. You can guess where this goes...am left hanging for hours, avoids texts and calls I made to arrange eta ...until he eventually texts that he'll come round at 6am to move it as needs a drink. As little other option agree and go to sleep. Further text at 2am - he can come round now. I say let's stick to 6am plan. Of course, he sleeps in and arrives at 7. Luckily council pick- up hadn't arrived, so all ok in end. However, I was annoyed and frustrated at being mucked around and was curt with him. Now he says I'm an ungrateful bitch and this is another example of why I'm such manipulative cow. AIBU to be pi**ed off at his so-called 'favour' causing me hassle?? Would appreciate some perspective!