I will give a couple of relevant examples.
Back in 2010 there was an earthquake in Christchurch. Some of you may remember this. The Anglican cathedral, the city's most iconic building, fell down. The Anglican diocese has built a temporary cathedral to replace it. They want to bulldoze the ruin of the old cathedral and replace it with something paid for by the insurance money.
Simple? No. Enter stage left various pressure groups saying the Anglicans should restore the cathedral at 5 times the cost, including restoration of a stone spire (a ridiculous thing to build on a known fault line) and that they've got "loads of money". The bishop has been slandered and litigation has been brought to prevent the demolition. In the meantime, the diocese scarcely has enough money to maintain its existing churches, and would probably only be able to sell them for a song if it tried.
Are the pressure groups putting up their own money? Err.. no. The diocese has even considered selling them the site, ie, you want it, you fix it. That option hasn't proved at all popular either.
Another example: this time in England. I know a church with a tiny parish, built in the 1850s. When its regular congregation was reduced to 10, the diocese decided to close the church. Cue local outrage, including claims of embezzlement of parish funds because "the church is rich". There was a meeting in the church. The parish treasurer said how much it cost per week to keep the church operational, and invited regular donations.
Massive tumbleweed moment.
What made matters even more ridiculous was that the church then survived by being "planted" by a lively crowd from Holy Trinity Brompton, who brought in guitars etc. Do you think people were pleased. No they weren't. They basically wanted a nice old respectable local CofE church but didn't want to put their hands in their pockets or, for that matter, darken its door.
Having some handsome buildings doesn't mean an organisation is wealthy, nor is there anything hypocritical about a church owning some handsome buildings. And the general rule is that if you want to use those buildings for what they're for (ie, worship) you can go to the service. Otherwise, be reasonable and put your hand in your pocket.