Extremely sorry in advance if this is tmi... I am in my early twenties and for as long as I can remember I have had a lot of discharge. Like...a lot. I know we all it get it and I know that it changes depending on your cycle (thickness, colour etc) and I think I know what to look out for in regards to abnormal discharge (anything green or like cottage cheese?!) The majority of the time my discharge is very 'normal' looking...clear, white or yellowish. But the amount I get is my main concern.
I have to wear panty liners every day and I change them multiple times throughout the day just to feel marginally comfortable. When I change my panty liner there is almost always a wet/damp patch in my pants where the discharge has gone through the panty liner. (By the way, I'm not using cheap liners, I tend to use Always or Carefree). There have been a few times when I haven't worn a liner and my jeans have gotten damp on the outside, meaning it's gone straight through my underwear and thick denim!
I don't tend to wear them around the house, I stick to pyjama bottoms or baggy/comfortable bottoms with no underwear and the problem is no better. I (sorry) just absolutely soil them. There is just so much. It seeps down the inner parts of my thighs and it's so uncomfortable when I sit down. I go to the toilet even when I don't need a wee, I go to simply wipe away the excess discharge.
This has been happening for as long as I remember. Throughout my teenage years I used to feel so embarrassed of my parents seeing my pyjama bottoms / pants in the laundry because they were always soiled.
I've approached the subject in the past with a few different friends, some completely horrified that I even had to wear panty liners everyday, and some saying that they too get a fair amount but I was always too embarrassed to dig deeper and see if they really did get THIS much.
I guess I am wondering - aibu to think this amount just isn't normal? Is this normal? Is this happening to every female, we just don't talk about it? And if not, is there anything I can do? In my more desperate times a few years ago I remember even googling 'medication that reduces discharge' which is just ridiculous, but this really is affecting my everyday life. I am so uncomfortable all of the time and I am sick of spending a fortune on panty liners!