I don't have all the information to hand, as this is about DSIS (who is in a terrible state and can't quite express herself at moment).
She and DBIL have had a really testing few years. We lost our Mum in 2013 and by 2014/5 DSIS was in counselling to help her deal with her grief and had been on medication since this time.
She has a stressful job and has had to deal with redundancies and now does the of three people whilst working with a skeleton staff. Her boss is supportive but can't do anything to help - there is no more money for staff. DSIS does all child care at each end of the day as DBIL has a long commute.
On top of all this they began to notice cracks in the walls of their home. It transpired that the front of their house was subsiding forwards, whilst the party wall with next door was dragging off to the left. After a couple of years living in terrible conditions, wrangling with the insurance company, the insurance paid out in 2016. The four of them moved in with us for a month, then into rented accommodation for six months, then back in with us for a month. As the builders took walls down other problems were found (woodworm etc). Every night we had the children whilst they did as much work at the house as possible to do the work that the insurance didn't cover. They were completely exhausted and we helped out as much as possible - either having the kids or depositing all our kids with friends so we join them at what became a pretty bleak building site. Whilst they were in such a mess it made sense to re-mortgage to put in an attic conversion and new kitchen so it could all be done at once and they don't plan on every moving again.
So that's the back ground. Sometime during 2016 DSIS was caught by speeding cameras twice within a few days, for the first time in 20 years driving. We think that she probably just had too much on her mind trying to project manage the house/ get home for kids/ juggle work. She paid the fines and was given 2 x 3 points (I don't drive myself and my lack of knowledge on all things car related isn't helping).
2017 was looking up until their car died and they had to buy a new one. They took out new insurance with Admiral and must have been asked the question "Do you have any points?" She answered no - having completely forgotten about the two letters she received about the speeding.
They go camping on holiday last week and have a bump. They ring the insurance company, some sort of search is carried out and the insurance company quite rightly says that she gave them the wrong information and invalidates the insurance.
DSIS is mortified and completely understands that the insurance is invalid and won't pay out. What has really knocked her is that her name is now on some sort of blacklist. She can't get car insurance from any other normal provider - it's sort of like having bad credit. She can only get insurance form small specialist brokers and her premiums have gone up threefold.
Money was tight anyway and I think that this has pushed her over the edge. She has spoken to the Financial Services ombudsman a couple of times - one advisor said there is nothing to be done, she's been fraudulent, and that this will affect all her different types of insurances going forward for ever. Another said that something could be done but was a bit vague. CAB was useless.
Can anyone give me any advice? I was thinking if we could get a letter from her doctor detailing her anxiety and meds, a letter from Macmillan who gave her counselling after Mum died, photos of the house plus all the insurance and building correspondence and how long the rebuild took and a letter from her boss detailing the stress at work that there must be a way to get her off this insurance black list.
Thanks