Friends on night out ..no invite for me?aibu to be annoyed?

[Jad234]

Last week I went out with my 2 friends,1 of them is always a bit bitchy with me,saying she doesn't like what I'm wearing then she buys the same or try's to flirt with guys I'm seeing etc anyway I thought me and the other girl were good friends.
Look on Facebook and they have put a status night out ..just two of them to the city centre (5 mins away from me)
Last week I specifically said I was desperate for a night out.
I very nearly wrote "enjoy girls,thanks for the invite" but didn't want to seem childish.
Cant help think it's a shitty trick.

I can see why it would sting.

But it doesn't sound like you and your "friend" particularly like each other.

Maybe she invited friend 3 out??

It's tempting and so hard OP but don't even bother

Do you have any hobbies where you could do some classes and meet some new people/friends who will be worth spending time with? X

Do you always do everything as a group of 3?

Honestly, it sounds as though the bitchy "friend" is actually jealous of you (putting you down but copying your style, trying to attract your partner etc.)

Maybe friend 2 didn't even know you hadn't been invited?

They are entitled to go out together. Chill. Instigate something yourself with one or other or both of them.

Yabu

I do like my friend ..it just annoys me when she does certain things.
Last weekend they were out and asked me and my boyfriend to meet them..we did.
She got her hand to my head pushed me away and started to dance with my BF.

She did what?! Don't stand for that

Really, erm she's not your friend she's using you to give herself some wierd points or self-esteem marleky just run

Sounds a great friend...how did bf react as you were being sidelined..did he push her head away and pull you back ?

Agreed. Frenemy.

Seriously, don't let yourself be bullied by this woman. I would rather have no friends than be treated like this. How old are you all, you sound very young?

We are all 28.
He was embarrassed ..just looked at me as if to say "help me"

She's no friend, sorry.

Time to make a few new friends Id say..its a shame but you can grow apart and have nothing in common anymore. Especially if you are uncomfortable and upset by her behaviour.

Why would you want to go out with the bitchy one anyway? If you're desperate for a night out just arrange something with the friend you like. Or someone else.