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Ben, 13 year old boy with cancer, refused treatment funding

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Buttercupambition · 25/08/2017 17:30

Hi all

Sorry, I'm posting in here for traffic but I'm trying to raise awareness of the below case! It's received some national press coverage today below. Ben has been battling a very rare, life threatening type of cancer affecting the tissues behind his eye. Previous treatments have so far failed. On the advice of his NHS medical team, he is due to have surgery in Amsterdam on 4th September but the NHS have denied funding. Ben's NHS medical team say this is his last chance and are totally behind this treatment. Ben is such a lovely, giving child and deserves every chance to beat this horrible disease. The funding is due to be reviewed, but not until September 13th, which means it would be too late for Ben's surgery on 4th and 12th.

(www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/brave-schoolboy-battling-rare-cancer-11050805)

I have become aware of the case in a professional capacity and although I might not be able to help enough in that way, I wondered if any generous mumsnetters might be willing to help themselves. I've pasted the details below.

"Ben Tylecote is our wonderful, kind hearted, intelligent 13 year old boy. He loves sport and desperately wants to go back to school.

Ben has a very rare cancerous tumour growing behind his right eye.

This week, the NHS told us that they could not fund the £100,000 needed for an operation scheduled for the 4th September to remove his eye and the tumour. Ben urgently needs this treatment in the next 2 weeks, the advice from our consultant is that we cannot wait until September 13th when the decision to deny funding may be reviewed. The NHS have been fantastic but this is an aggressive cancer and time is critical.

We must find a way to raise the money ourselves.

Ben Tylecote is normal, sporty 13 year old boy who goes to the local school, Catmose College, Oakham. We noticed that Ben’s right eye was sticking out last summer and he was diagnosed in June 2016 with a tumour in the muscle behind the eye - Rhabdomyosarcoma.

He has endured a year of chemotherapy and proton beam therapy and had his 13th Birthday in hospital having chemo. Despite Ben’s inspiring emotional resilience and determination to move forward, the tumour hasn’t shrunk and the need for surgical intervention has reached a critical stage in order to prevent the cancer from spreading. The tumour is continuing to grow and now Ben can’t use his right eye at all. Last month, we were all ready for surgery to have the eye removed but it was called off at the last minute to review all options.

The NHS medical team has referred Ben to an Amsterdam hospital to ensure the best outcome for him. The eye and tumour will be removed and the area will be treated with a localised radiotherapy called brachytherapy, where an isotope is applied locally. This is very specialist treatment and is close to the brain and pituitary gland.
This operation in Amsterdam will cost at least £100,000 and we were due to fly out next week. The NHS have been fantastic but have denied us funding for this operation.

We have been amazed at Ben’s patience and tolerance throughout all the treatment. He has missed a lot of lessons this year and has visited his school to help the other children learn about cancer and that it is not contagious! "

Thank you so much Flowers If you cannot or prefer not to donate money, please spread awareness on social media or write to your MP and ask them to write to NHS England asking them to urgently review their decision in time for 4th September.

  • [Please note, this post has been edited by MNHQ]
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Buttercupambition · 25/08/2017 17:30

Sorry I don't know how to do the clicky links! If anyone else could re-post them, that would be great!

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Gingernaut · 25/08/2017 17:34

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Message withdrawn by MNHQ.

Buttercupambition · 25/08/2017 17:38

Thank you!

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Buttercupambition · 25/08/2017 17:59

Bumping!

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JsOtherHalf · 25/08/2017 18:03

community.fireflyfriends.com/blog/article/charity-grant-funding-caudwell-children-treatment-surgery-not-available-in
"You can apply to Caudwell Children to help with funding for treatment and surgery not available in the UK this includes Selective Dorsal Rhizotomy, Proton Therapy and Cancer Treatment.

To be eligible to apply, the child you are applying on behalf of must be under 18 and live in the UK. The household income not including benefits must be under £45,000 gross per annum.

To apply for support within the Treatment/Surgery not available in the UK category email Caudwell Children directly or call 0345 300 1348."

JsOtherHalf · 25/08/2017 18:07

"Ben's Heroes Trust was founded in 2011 in memory of Ben Loyns. Ben sadly died of cancer in December 2010 at the age of 9.

The charity provides funding and support to help children with cancer to get new treatments or drugs that aren’t available on the NHS.

It also funds projects that improve the quality of life for children having treatment in the UK. For example, it helps to fund electronic tablets for children during their treatment. This means they can watch films, play games and stay in touch with friends and family.

Contact details:
Email: bensheroestrust.org/#/get-in-touch"

e1y1 · 25/08/2017 18:09

Disgraceful, I know the NHS is stretched, but surely this is what we pay our taxes for, so that these procedures can be funded; especially when you see on trash morning tv that someone has had a boob job on the NHS.

Thanks for the link.

ohfourfoxache · 25/08/2017 18:11

Bump

TheFairyCaravan · 25/08/2017 18:15

Buttercup I live locally to Ben yet I've not heard of this until now. Is there any way of getting The Rutland and Stamford Mercury and Rutland Radio involved?

I've just Googled it's in the Leicester Mercury but maybe it could be more local too?

DawnMumsnet · 25/08/2017 19:16

Hi Buttercupambition,

We're really sorry but we've changed the rules on the site recently with regards to GoFundMe links and any others which are not directly linking to a registered charity, and unfortunately we no longer allow people to post such links.

We've left up the link to the Daily Mirror story about Ben, which does contain the necessary links.

We send our best wishes to Ben and his family and hope he gets the treatment he urgently needs. Flowers

ThePinkOcelot · 25/08/2017 19:33

Yep, but we're spending £8m + on testing out driverless lorries on the roads!!
Fucking ridiculous!!
I hope Ben gets the treatment he needs!

Buttercupambition · 26/08/2017 00:41

Bumping!

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Gingernaut · 26/08/2017 02:50

Bump. 😁

isthistoonosy · 26/08/2017 06:21

Bump

Dmacka75 · 26/08/2017 07:42

Bump

CanIBuffalo · 26/08/2017 07:54

www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/brave-schoolboy-battling-rare-cancer-11050805
Click link to the Mirror article as MNHQ said they were not editing out that link.

Gingernaut · 26/08/2017 12:39

Bump for the late risers. Grin

CanIBuffalo · 26/08/2017 18:30

Update
He's within 1k of the goal.Smile

Gingernaut · 26/08/2017 18:48

🤗 WOO! 🤗

Jazz hands smileys in case they don't post properly.

Gingernaut · 26/08/2017 18:48

Oh yeah. They did.

Buttercupambition · 27/08/2017 13:03

Bumping again!

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Gingernaut · 27/08/2017 14:00

www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/brave-schoolboy-battling-rare-cancer-11050805

Another link to the Mirror story which has the GoFundMe link.

Gingernaut · 27/08/2017 14:03

I'd like to think that we nest of vipers had domething to do with this total.

Ben, 13 year old boy with cancer, refused treatment funding
SoPassRemarkable · 27/08/2017 14:06

Great news' hope he gets the treatment asap.

Photomummy16 · 27/08/2017 14:53

Oh well done for posting OP! So glad they've smashed the target. We know Ben's family and are rooting for them big time!